Guys, How would you feel if the girl you rejected gets scooped up by your really good friend?

[Anonymous]

Would it make you feel some type of way?

[SnowedIn]

Nope. I rejected her for a reason. That person scooping her up just means we're different. If I go to a Chevy dealership and I buy a Camaro and watch the next guy scoop up the Suburban, I don't all of a sudden wish I had bought the Suburban. I made a choice.

[Asker]

But wouldn’t it bother that it’s your friend. You used to chat with the girl for months

[Asker]

You used to say to her goodnight lol

[SnowedIn]

It would not bother me personally, no. I see what you're saying and that logic makes sense but, again, your question said that I rejected them. So, if I did, then it's not going to big me if she goes out with someone, even my friend.

[Asker]

Ok. I asked this question because I l’m interested in this new guy. I don’t want drama later down the road

[SnowedIn]

Oh that's cool! I'm glad you shared that... it's fascinating when askers share why they asked their question.

[FilmGuy93]

I wouldn't care at all. I'd wish them the best and keep my mouth shut.

[Asker]

So you wouldn’t tell the friend that you went out with her once in that situation?

[FilmGuy93]

Not unless he asked, no. If I rejected her, it's not like our previous interaction would have any impact on him.

[spartan55]

Why? If I rejected her why would I care? I'm sure you want him to be jealous... so stupid. Just carry on and stop being petty.

[Asker]

Am I petty if I start to date his friend though?

[spartan55]

Not unless you broke up because of him or similar. You said it's been like six months?

[Asker]

Yeah it’s been more than 6 months and he rejected me.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I don't see a problem

[mark000h]

If i rejected her, then I'd be happy for her. I'd have to have a good reason for rejecting her though.

[Asker]

They only went out once but were chatting for a while before they met. Is the girl doing wrong if she starts to date his friend months later?

[mark000h]

I don't think so. If he rejected her or she rejected him, then they're not together.

[Asker]

But should she steer clear from hus friend?

[Asker]

His*

[KrakenAttackin]

Depends. If I was already nailing something better or not. Also, I would ask my friend if she is into threesomes.

[Asker]

Me and the first guy never had sex

[KrakenAttackin]

That was not my point. After a good friend starts nailing you he might be willing to share.

[Asker]

Ur creepy. I don’t think sane guy would think like that.

[KrakenAttackin]

Keep telling yourself that.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Wouldn't care, I rejected her. Other way around, I'd be upset.

[Anonymous]

Nope. If I rejected her for a reason. Potentially I might be concerned for my friend. But he's a big boy he can handle himself.

[Wise4myage]

Id be pissed!

[Asker]

Why?

[Wise4myage]

Because friends don’t do that!

[Asker]

He rejected me and we only went out once. Why would he even care.

[Asker]

:) ?

[Wise4myage]

Ask him.

[Asker]

But if you were in his situation why would you be pissed at the friend?

[In_Trance]

wouldn't bother me