What are signs that you have adhd as an adult?

[ChristianKing23]

[DizzyDesii]

I think its hard to tell unless someone just tells you. One of my exes told me from the get go he had it and that he would talk fast a lot, be hyper when its closer to bed time and would be easily distracted in conversation. I didn't take it seriously but it turned out to be a nightmare. He could never sit still and always wanted to be on the go as well. It just became too much for me plus his laugh was sickening like pee wee herman. He barely slept and would do things that irked me always claiming he forgot i asked him not to do that