I have anxiety & tend to shake my leg a lot. My guy friend touched my thigh & squeezed it more than 1x. Is he trying to comfort me/calm my stress or?

[Anonymous]

Meanwhile he did that he told me that I have big/thick thighs and said that he likes that. He also said that any man loves big thighs to grab and not skinny thighs of some skinny girl. But the other week we had the topic of if we liked each other and he said that he didn’t like me. ? I have bad stress and always fidget with things and we keep holding hands. He squeezes somewhat massages or carasses my hand and interlock fingers. Is he wanting me more than a friend or he just wanted to have a deeper closer friendship?

[ThinkFitness23]

By now you should both know, the energy between you speaks for itself.


Seems there is chemistry running along side your relationship.


I think you question is do you want him sexually or if your shy maybe ill put the question to you this way, would you be miss him or stop him if he made this move.


Also how did you feel with his hands on your thighs.


If I was him I’d kiss your neck nibble your ears and then draw back to see your face and read you, the eye contact following on this would say it all.


When your next together hold eye contact and see how you feel in that moment.

[ChillaxingLove]

When you don’t set boundaries according to what kind of relationship you have things get blurred. You’re just friends but you let him touch your thighs like your his girlfriend. When you value yourself men when value you

[Thatpearl26]

He’s probably trying to comfort you. From my experience a friend who had confessed to me that he liked me had done this often. So to me that would be an indicator that he likes you more than a friend.

[shi-shi]

He's being way too grabby you should probably tell him off next time he does this.

[MikeUltra]

While I can and do see that this can be a sexual move, if he's doing this while your anxiety is high and your leg is shaking, he's most likely trying to help you calm down. Either way, it may be worth a conversation to be certain of why he's doing that.

[jiffer]

I think he likes you and is not sure how to express it in words

[Avicenna]

Only he knows for sure, but I don't think it was either of those things

[stratford]

Three reasons:
1. He likes you
2. He is trying to help you stay calm
3. Your leg movement is irritating him and it's a way to get you to stop

[KrakenAttackin]

Shaking your leg it a really annoying habit women do. It radiates anxiety and insecurity. When you catch yourself shaking your leg, STOP.

[Anonymous]

punch him in his balls

he's trying to have sex with you to empty his balls

[Opinion Owner]

so kick him in his balls and tell him to keep it in his pants or he'll lose his dick

[Wise4myage]

That's a sexual move.

[Nahid1707]

Did you not like this?

[Anonymous]

He is being too touchy for just a friend.

[Iron_Man]

Yes probably