Flirting or friendly?

[Anonymous]

one time he came over to me near the fax machine. He was helping others but he kept looking over at me while he was helping them. I didn’t need help but he came over and stood in close proximity. Our arms were almost touching (side by side) and he said “finally I get to come over to you. How are you?” He did check on me but I was fine on the fax machine. I wasn’t struggling on it.

We were side by side and he looked right at me with a slight smile and mellow voice

he also does look at me a lot but that means nothing

[richardcory]

There is a broad grey area between friendly and flirting.

[Asker]

Well that doesn’t help

[richardcory]

What I'm saying is that is can be both. He's clearly attacted to you and he may be on the borderline between actually doing something about it

[Asker]

He’s with someone else now. I think he had been talking to her before I came around but they were not exclusive yet

I did stonewall him a lot. Out of low self esteem and nervousness

When he came near me I stepped away from him and he possibly knew I felt uncomfortable and he stepped to the side but was still nice and understanding

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, it is on the border of friendly and flirting. It is hard to flirt at work.

[pink_blah]

Flirting

[Asker]

You’re 14 😑 lol

[pink_blah]

I know my age 🤨 lol..

[Asker]

You’re so young lol 😭 how could you know this 🫣

[pink_blah]

Its kinda obvious, don’t you think? maybe he’s just being friendly but he might also have a crush on you

[Asker]

Maybe so lol I think he’s just a flirty non serious guy lol when you start dating stay away lol

Finish school and leave guys alone ❤️

[pink_blah]

Stay away from what? 😭

[Asker]

All boys lol until you accomplished all your goals in life lol

[pink_blah]

oh why?

[Asker]

It’s just best lol