Guys, have you ever had women fighting each other over you, because they both liked you?

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If so, how did it make you feel? Swelled headed?

RealMarek · Accepted Answer

No, not really. Although I did have a woman come onto me once after she found out that I had a date with an attractive woman that she knew professionally. Classic pre-selection… I became more attractive to her because an she heard an attractive woman was seen on a date with me. I didn’t end up in a relationship with either of them and there was no conflict between the two of them. I was already too old for that kind of drama.

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

I've had that happen. When I was immature, I thought it was flattering, but now I just find the scarcity mindset cringey.

Y'all are grown women. I'm just some guy. There are billions of men. There are billions women. I'm glad you think I'm worth fighting for, but there are other men who are just as, if not more deserving of your love than I am.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Not since high school. And they didn't really..."fight" over me. I mean, its flattering, sure... but It didn't really give me a swelled head. It was overall not all that pleasant. It was more stressful than pleasant. I think it depends on the guy though. Some guys might get a swollen head.

AviatorTom · Answer

I did... once... when I was young and handsome. My work sponsored a tennis outing, and we played doubles tennis. My partner and my opponent's partner each gave me their numbers afterward. To make a long story short, I dated both of them but ended up with a 6-month fling with my opponent's doubles partner while he ended up marrying my doubles partner.

Legendarylegacy13 · Answer

In middle school my 6th grade girlfriend was n l Iike a baby momma but I broke up with because I knew a lot of girls liked me. And kept constantly, basically cheating. I went with her early in my 6th grade year she tried to fight all my girlfriends all the way till the 8th grade witch I was in twice.

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

Just once as a kid at school, so I doubt it counts since it wasn't proper attraction but just kid drama. Our teacher sent us all to the principle over it too, so nah I just felt pretty mad about the whole thing.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yeah, but they didn't physically fight each other and it was more of a verbal thing. Overall, it left me very conflicted because they were both good friends of mine

StormChaser838 · Answer

yes, always happens, and how bitchy they get. Lucky, in my case I never liked both whenever it happened to me.

Pegases · Answer

I used to think this was something to be proud of, but it turns out it's just a sign that I used to be deeply toxic.

BeMuse · Answer

They just look stupid. It's not a good look.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Only once, in High School. Problem was I liked their friend better than the two of them.😂

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes, and it was weird because they were each others cousins and I was not interested in either.

cth96190 · Answer

No, that did not happen. Women were usually too busy telling me to “fuck off and die (FOAD).”

Pohjolan · Answer

AFAIK no. How funny would it be if some gals fight over a guy but no one can be bothered to let the guy know?

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, my girlfriend and friend. girlfriend won, friend never talked to me again, despite my best efforts.

clampfan101 · Answer

Girls don’t even notice me. lol (Not that I would want to be fought over.)

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Nope. Never had anyone that interested in me, let alone two.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yeah, it made me feel uncomfortable. I didn't want to hurt their feelings.

Sfranken · Answer

No. It was the exact opposite of that. I think women are the most ' unattractive ' when they fight with each other or Men

DJB72 · Answer

If they did I never heard about it

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, not at all.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not even in my dreams!!

PointTaken · Answer

Nope.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

shortster · Answer

Nope

Debbie14217 · Answer

yes i have

Sabretooth · Answer

nah.

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