A guy is in a relationship but he told me he thinks and fantasizes about me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

He and I have history but we haven’t seen each other for a year. We always had a passionate connection but were in bad places when we met. We had a bad falling out where he kinda ruined things between us. But I still loved him regardless. A couple months ago he followed my private IG of which I post nudes just for him and I. I reached out to him today and said I wanted to see him, of which he responded that he’s in a relationship but thinks and fantasizes about me. With a sad face. I told him same and he said he’ll keep that in mind and he still wants to talk, just privately for now. What do you make of all this? Obviously it’s wrong.. but now I’m wondering why is he with her if he still thinks about me

[spartan55]

He's thinking about fucking you..
.. and he has a girlfriend which you will probably end up pretending doesn't exist.

[Asker]

But he probably doesn’t love her?

[spartan55]

Sounds like his business.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

A girlfriend doesn't make his fantasies of other women just magically disappear.
Love and sex are two different things to a guy

[slatyb]

What do you want?

[Asker]

I want us to be together

[slatyb]

That's a good question. Send him a link to Paul Simon's song "Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover"

[Asker]

You think if I tell him to leave her he will?

[Asker]

I like Paul Simon