Relationships- I am having recurring dreams about another guy other than my boyfriend what do I do?

[Cameron149]

I'm having recurring dreams about another guy. I also find that when my boyfriend and I kiss I don't like to kiss him anymore and sort fake it-feel really guilty. He is 30 and I'm 21. I know I need to communicate with him but not sure how to bring up thus type of conversation with him as he might take it the wrong way. Any good advice other than just breaking up with him because that won't solve a problem.

[serious]

Well this is not a good dream you are having and is not a good indication also. Your dream is an indication that sooner or later this relationship is likely to fade away, love will fade away with time and as you know if that happens break up will become inevitable. I am talking in futuristic scenario but given your dreams that is what it is indicating which is not a good.

Anyways, may be you can talk to an adult, some one older say your dad or any elderly person you trust and maybe you will get a different perspective.

[kerrylouise]

To be honest, i think it depends. Is the dream sexual? Do you like this other guy? Do you know them in reality or is it just a random character?
I think if your unhappy on your relationship then this is a big indicator that your probably subconsciously wishing to persue someone new. However if its an innocent dream, then its just a random dream and I guess the next thing to consider is what happens in the dream. I've had dreams about random guys in the past but its never meant anything. Infact they were never anyone i had met, and i would wake up and just forget.
If you're wishing to be with this guy an you know them, then yeah you should mention it to him, otherwise I think bringing it up when its just random, wouldn't be useful

[Everglow5]

If I were you, I would break up with him. You don't deserve to be with someone you don't love, and he doesn't deserve to be with someone who doesn't love him.

[buddysboy16]

It sounds like you've fallen out of love. As hard as it is, you need to be straight with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him it is no fault of his own (if that is the case)

[Iron_Man]

You do nothing you shake it off