Found dates old Instagram. it’s private but this is his profile picture. I don’t know what to think? could he be gay? or just I don't know?

[Anonymous]

https://ibb.co/m62Qq2k

[Astarlessnightsky]

Its just a regular dude.

[Asker]

But that pose.. and the cat face paint

[Astarlessnightsky]

Means nothing

[spartan55]

HahahHahaha

[Asker]

Seriously. What were your first thoughts?

[spartan55]

I don't know, what do you think?

[Asker]

Somethings not quite right. He was around 19-20 here.

[spartan55]

Why don't you get a current picture?

[Asker]

I have a current pic. He looks perfectly masculine in it. But I’ve only dated this guy for 6 weeks and he is not very communicative so I had to do some digging to find out what he is really like. I think he is a bit feminine. His Instagram has a quote in his bio, THAT profile pictures, over 200 posts (private). So he liked social media attention. When I went to his house he had soo many skincare products (more than I have) and hair dye, hair gel. One time when we were making out I stroked his hair and he said he should probably use some hair gel…

Now this will surprise you. He asked me if I farted while I was with him (I didn’t) and when the last time I farted was. (This was the second time he mentioned farting, it happened twice before… while I was laughing once he said Oo don’t fart now)..
then he tried to massage my asshole, and put his finger in his mouth. He denied that it was the same finger. He tried to act dominant when he was kissing me by being aggressive and it caught me off guard, then he asked if I liked that.

He has hair dye in his bathroom. Fine I guess. I asked him what his goals were and he said to lose weight.

He sends me kissy emojis. It’s fine. But all off this together makes me feel like he might be a bit feminine.

Is this normal behaviour? I’m just trying to look out for myself. I like him but I don’t know if this is normal or not.

[spartan55]

So you've been with him six weeks and what? You think he is gay? You are having sex I assume?

[Asker]

Only oral. I don’t think he is gay. I don’t know what to think.

[spartan55]

If he doesn't communicate well then why are you with him? Now you're playing CSI and overthinking every little thing.

[spartan55]

I would just ask him. Dude, are you bi?

[spartan55]

What does hair dye have to do with losing weight? A lot of what you said didn't even make sense.
Also, you aren't 'getting to know' anyone by stalking their social media. That's about the worst way to form an opinion on anyone.

[ManOnFire]

I really couldn't say. No.1 it's his old Insta. Maybe he's nothing like that now? And if it's old, does it matter?

I gotta be honest: this is where women start jacking themselves up by playing detective too much, going deep into someone else's rabbit hole and then causing themselves to overthink. How would you feel if some guy went through your past or did investigations into your present life? You would feel intruded on and like he's a weirdo, wouldn't you? How would you feel if he found some account of you years ago partying or hanging with groups of guys and thought you were a slut? You would be upset by that, wouldn't you?

[Asker]

I wouldn’t do this if he would communicate more with me. I need to know what type of person I’m dating. He is not open with me.

[Asker]

Also, I never did party or act like a slut. There is something he did that raised my suspicions hence my detective work …

[ManOnFire]

Okay so if you know this about him and he won't be open with you, why are you choosing to date him? Do you want to have a relationship with someone who hides who he is or what the truth is? Do you really want to spend your time trying to figure him out when you could be out there dating someone else who is transparent and gives you peace of mind?

[boggboss]

Gay bi or just a guy thats nit scared to express himself lol

[Asker]

Isn’t it odd though? I’m a girl and would feel embarrassed to pose like that and have it as my profile picture

[boggboss]

Because u embarras easy compared to him clearly

[Asker]

Maybe. I like him. So this isn’t a red flag do you think?

[boggboss]

I think you are overthinking

[Asker]

Maybe you’re right

[In_Trance]

Get off his social media before you fuck everything up