What makes a guy irresistible to a women?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

There isn't any one specific thing. It's more of an "overall package" kinda thing. There are certainly traits which, together IN THE RIGHT PROPORTIONS make up a guy who women will generally find attractive (maybe not... irrisistable).

But it's much like your answer would be, if I asked what would make a woman irrisistable. And you might give me an answer. But... you know that if you really thought about it... whatever answer you gave wasn't really what you meant. No matter what single thing you pick about a girl... having that alone isn't enough. It s also a set of traits together that you (and guys generally) are looking for. You want a girl who is pretty, and kind, and loyal, and intelligent, and interesting, and fun, and not uptight about stupid shit, and a whole bunch of things together. None of them individually is going to make any girl irrisistable. But the right combination, IS what makes some particular girl irrisistable (to one guy in particular, or to guys more generally).

You already know the answer to this more-or-less. Girls want a guy who is kind, stable, assertive, interesting, thoughtful and caring, spontaneous in shows of affection, funny and all the sorta regular ass stuff that you already know. IN THE RIGHT PROPORTIONS and, ideally, in a good-looking package.

But there is no "secret thing" you can do to make yourself irresistible to a woman. Just... be the best guy you can be (genuinely, without scheming or calculating or whatever, just... don't be a dick basically), and that's about all you can really do. But don't look to... DO some particular thing to try and make yourself irresistible to women. That's almost always a bad idea.