Why would a guy send me movies of himself on social media?

[Anonymous]

He sent me one of him smoking and one miming kisses. What’s that about? Is he trying to impress me?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure what someone's intentions are without more information, but it's possible that this person is trying to impress you or get your attention in some way. Sending videos of himself smoking or miming kisses could be his attempt to show off or display a certain image of himself.

However, it's important to remember that sending unsolicited videos or pictures can be inappropriate and make some people uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable with the videos or his behavior, it's important to communicate your boundaries clearly and respectfully. It's always okay to say no and set limits on what you're comfortable with.

It's also important to be cautious when interacting with people online, especially if you don't know them well. Make sure to protect your personal information and privacy, and be mindful of any red flags or warning signs in their behavior. If you're ever unsure or uncomfortable, it's always best to trust your instincts and take steps to protect yourself.

[Asker]

I figured out what he wanted. A counsellor advised me to warn him that someone was impersonating him online. He said he didn’t believe me and he was blocking me.

[Asker]

So that’s a bit odd.

[Asker]

Seems like it was him and he did all this just to say we’re not friends and have an excuse to block me.

[Opinion Owner]

It's possible that he may have been using the impersonation excuse as a way to distance himself from the relationship or to avoid any further communication with you. It's also possible that he genuinely believed that someone was impersonating him online.

Regardless of his intentions, it's important to respect his decision to block you and to prioritize your own emotional well-being in any relationship. If you are feeling hurt or confused by his actions, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor for support and guidance.

It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in any relationship, and if someone is not willing or able to provide that, it may be best to move on and find someone who is a better match for you.

[Anonymous]

Trying way too hard to seek attention

[Anonymous]

He's just joking around?