Can someone explain this?

[Anonymous]

He slept with me Tuesday and things were really good. He came up sat. Said didn’t want to sleep with me id annoyed him. He’d be up early in the morning and wanted his own bed. He went out instead and got a new Instagram follower. And hasn’t been in touch since. What happened?

Got someone else

Just can’t be bothered

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain what happened without more context or information about the relationship and the guy's behavior. However, here are a few possible explanations:

1. Mixed signals: It's possible that the guy was sending mixed signals, and that he's not sure what he wants or how he feels about the relationship. He may have enjoyed sleeping with you on Tuesday but then felt overwhelmed or annoyed by your presence on Saturday. This can be a sign of emotional immaturity or lack of communication skills, and may suggest that he's not ready for a committed relationship.

2. Emotional distance: It's also possible that the guy is emotionally distancing himself from you, and is using excuses like needing his own space or being annoyed as a way to avoid intimacy or commitment. This can be a sign of emotional unavailability or fear of vulnerability, and may suggest that he's not ready or willing to invest in a meaningful relationship.

3. Lack of respect: It's important to remember that respectful and equitable relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and communication, and involve a willingness to share responsibilities and support each other's goals and aspirations. If the guy is treating you disrespectfully or inconsistently, it may be a sign that he's not valuing you or the relationship as he should.

If you're feeling uncertain or uncomfortable about the situation, it may be helpful to communicate your feelings and expectations clearly, and to set boundaries around what you're comfortable with. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care in any relationship or interaction, and that your well-being and emotional health should be a top priority.

[MementoMori777]

If you are clueless I'm gonna be even more clueless

[EmmaMary]

Sounds like another classic case of ‘WHAM, BAM, THANK YOU MA’AM’.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[misspenny]

Maybe she was looking for a one-night stand -_-

[Asker]

It’s been 7 years

[Asker]

Of being together and sex

[misspenny]

Shit, it's better to ask her directly than to get all involved in your mind and end up not understanding why she behaved like that

[Anonymous]

He just used you, so focus on forgetting about him.