Friends with benefits please advise…?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a friends with benefits situation the last few years…. don’t come at me it actually suits me. he called me yesterday after no contact for a week, I told him I hadn’t been very well he was like oh…, you can call me anytime at all (as opposed to only calling to hook up), are you free tommrow? I want to see you and for a few hours not only the 20 mins we usually spend together…. he must of asked if I was ok about ten times. what do you make of his reaction?

[EricSummer]

It is possible that even after such a long time he is developing some feelings for you. Is that what you were wondering about?

It is nirmal to make sure a friend us fine when she was unwell, but you would then not necessarily stay long.

20 minutes though 😂.

[FilmGuy93]

How could you possibly say that your situation suits you, if you are unsure of how to handle your partner expressing basic human decency?

[Anonymous]

If your being doing friends with benefits for a few years. He definitely cares about you. Not sure if he loves you but he does care

[FilmGuy93]

Exactly... I don't want to be an ass or harp on the point I made in my own answer, but it seems weird to me that this woman is talking about how her situation suits her, but she doesn't know how to handle the person she fucks expressing some level of concern for her wellbeing.

[BoopBoopBeep]

He's starting to want more from you.

[In_Trance]

He wants to know if you're ok

[spartan55]

Lol. 20 minutes?

[swettannie]

He care about you

[Anonymous]

I think he loved u