What are they thinking?

[Anonymous]

Okay so basically I am a decent girl who goes for playing sport in the park and occasionally I play with the guys over there. But one day when they were sitting I overheard them and they said "Is she the girl?" And actually it's really weird, cause I have zero interaction with them. And I thought they were discussing about me but It happens with other guys as well, whenever guys notice me they either stare or they gossip with their friends when they see me another time.
I am cheerful and don't know if I give guys wrong signals. what to do?

[Anonymous]

It’s actually not “really weird” at all. They probably aren’t used to having women go out there and play the sport with them. I don't know where you’re from but over here, when it comes to playing sports like basketball or whatever with guys at the gym, park, etc, I never see women joining them. Girls play with other girls.

[Asker]

Yes maybe

[Opinion Owner]

If you play with these guys regularly then maybe you should break the ice and introduce yourself. Like if you’re good at the sport, they probably recognize and talk about you like ‘hey that’s the girl I told you was really good’ or ‘that’s the girl who I told you plays with us all the time’. Things like that, but they don’t speak with you directly.

[Asker]

Actually it's possible and by chance do they find me attractive? 😂cause said yeahhh to a guy while talking

[Opinion Owner]

In this situation I can’t say, only because the nature of it. Like naturally my thoughts are that they’re intrigued by a woman playing the sport with them when other ladies usually don’t join. Especially if it’s like a traditionally men’s sport.

[spartan55]

They were just pointing you out. How is that a negative thing?

[Asker]

Ya but on what basis

[MementoMori777]

Just keep living the way you are living, I'm sure if anything is meant to happen, it will happen