How come when people block me I find another way to contact them but when I block them they just move on. Do I have attachment issues?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[ImHere22]

Yes. They're blocking you for a reason- you don't leave them alone. When you find them after they've blocked you once, they're exhausted from dealing with you and are saving themselves by ceasing communication.

Please do everyone who has blocked you a favor: respect their decisions and leave them be.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

How come when I reach out they end up resolving things with me though and we end up friends again

[BoopBoopBeep]

Likely narcissistic tendencies make it difficult to accept that someone doesn't want to contact you. You get blocked, a healthy person doesn't find a way to contact them, they see the other person doesn't want to have communication and they move on.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

But.. how come they have always been open to rebuilding the friendship after I reach out when they blocked me it’s like they only blocked out of anger or something

[BoopBoopBeep]

Doesn't matter why they blocked you unless you think they hit the wrong button by mistake. He's obviously not open to rebuilding the friendship. Probably told you that to get you to go away. You need to move on. You'll be happier then.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I mean we hung out twice since so I don’t think they just said that

[BoopBoopBeep]

Okay, but it clearly wasn't all that meaningful for HIM.

Say I'm him. I blocked you... for WHATEVER reason. I don't want to "patch things up" I don't want to rebuild, I just want nothing to do with you, and this is just easier than having to explain it to you (obviously). Plus I don't have to put up with countless "but what about" questions, when I'm just really over you.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, I am not sure its attachment issues. I think you have issues with rejection... but honestly I don't know you. You might be really fun and cool... but I can only go off what you are saying here. When someone blocks me I don't try to trace them down. It sounds stalker'ish to me.

This why I always leave a woman with her thinking she broke up with me, it seems to work out better when she believes she is the one that rejected me. because honestly, at that point I quit caring.

[spartan55]

The fact that you are blocking and getting blocked so much should tell you something.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’ve only been blocked twice. What are you trying to say?

[spartan55]

Even once is reason enough to examine your behavior and self reflect.

[motownplayer2000]

Yeah. If they block you. They do it for a reason. That’s actually kind of stalker ish and very unhealthy… yes, they should move on. It’s really creepy to go after someone that doesn’t want you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Okay but each time they have honestly ended up talking to me again and we’ve been exactly friends again so it’s like they just blocked me out of anger

[John_Doesnt]

If somebody blocks you then just ignore them. You're sounding very clingy and like what a stalker would do.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

How come a lot of the time if I reach out after they block me we end up resolving things. Maybe they just did it to upset me

[John_Doesnt]

still sounds like a stalker. if somebody blocks you it means they want to be left alone.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Please gorgeous, don't block me with all your beauty, but it could be attachment issues.

[LiamJHayden]

If I block someone and she finds a way to get around it, I tend to assume she's a bit psycho.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Usually they explain why and we go our separate ways they have never called me a psycho infact 90% of the time we end up resolving things. Maybe they where blocking to get a reaction

[LiamJHayden]

I was speaking hypothetically. I have never actually blocked anyone

[BoobMan]

Do you WANT the people you block to come looking for you?

[Bklynbadboy12]

They move on because they don't care about you if they did they'd find another way

[MrCommodore]

No, you just need a big hug 🤗

[Andres77]

If you’re getting blocked so much…I’d wonder why

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’ve been blocked twice maybe 3 times in the past two years

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

How come they always resolve it with me though? After blocking me we end up friends again

[TallAnon]

Yeap

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

But I find it weird we always end up friends again when they blocked me and I reach out so I sometimes think maybe they just blocked me in anger but if that’s the case they’d come back so I should leave it

[TallAnon]

Means they have the moral high ground and can ask you for stuff. As a guy, usually sex.