Guys, I don’t understand why is having a voluptuous body what determines if a guy likes you?

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Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

Because woman make having sex with them too hard lol.

I don't mean to that in a bad way, just think of it like this.

In order to have sex with a woman, you have to put in a certain amount of time and energy.

Imagine you had $70,000 to buy a car and you could either get a Kia Rio for that price or a Mercedes-Benz S class for the same price.

You put all that time and energy into getting the 70 grand but which one are most people going to choose?

If society stopped valuing sex more than the connection part of a relationship than being pretty wouldn't be the most valuable part of being a woman.

Obviously this is mostly men's fault but woman are the only ones who can change it and you guys need to stop using sex as your source of power because you have so much more to offer than that but it will become the only value men truly see.

I'd be willing to bet if you took a college student from the 60's and asked him what he likes about women and took a current college student and asked the same thing, only one of those guys would have genuine things to say.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

It depends on what you mean by voluptuous. I think guys and girls tend to have different meanings to that word.

I tend to take it as meaning fat or large breasts or both. Not a fan of big breasts - I like slightly more than a handful with large nipples. With really large breasts all you can do is lift them up.

If you mean curvy well yes I like slender girls with a tight waist because everything is good & curvy with a tight waist. It screams estrogen and fertility at us and automatically gets us interested in you.

BoobSlayer · Answer

My heart is captivated by voluptuous bodies and the delightful curves of titties. I am drawn to milk monsters like a magnet. Every inch of the honker honkers is irresistible and enchanting. Seeing the woman I love with voluptuous juggernauts radiates an inner beauty that no words can describe, making me fall more in love than ever before. Coconut curves drive me wild. With her voluptuous udders I can tell she takes care of herself and it makes my heart beat faster and deeper. Every touch of the fiery bicuits feels like the flame of love, radiating pleasure and passion. The voluptuous bazookas have a way of firing my soul, of tormenting my senses and speaking to my heart of hearts - there is no other feeling like touching fun bags, not even touching Danny Devito's bald head.

strateguy632 · Answer

not determined nor depend. many guys like faces or legs or bottoms according to films. the reason curves are attractive are evolution means those who noticed boobs found mature, causing kids so not extinct but those who dont noticed boobs no kids.

Messianic_Monk · Answer

I don't think it's the deciding factor. I think there is a biological reason for men to be attracted to it (wide hips are good for carrying children, big chest is an indicator of being a good provider of food for the kid). But I think the key to it is ultimately being confident in who you are. THAT makes anything look good. I've like slender women and plus sized ones. So it's certainly not the deciding factor to me.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

From my past experience with that word, voluptuous means, FAT!! Just about every FAT girl claims she voluptuous!! When I hear that word, I think of someone like the girl in the picture but it ALWAYS turns out to be a 2-ton Tessie who thinks SHE'S what EVERY guy wants and desires!!

genericname85 · Answer

quite simply, because the way your body is shaped is a representation of A: your genes and B: your lifestyle. you can not have a shitty lifestyle and bad genes and look hot to a guy. the purpose of sexual attraction is procreation. and every individual will try their best to procreate with the most "fit" partner. that's how evolution works.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I think you should rock what you have and not care too much about what others do, just cause they have what they have doesn't mean it makes what you have incompatible, be comfortable in your own skin and own what you got

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It's doesn't even make my trait list and TBH I was scoping out the babe behind her in the orange chair - slim, less tanned, smaller firmer breasts from what I can see.👌

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s not that’s single guys talking about what they like. But if they like your personality and your face and you guys have something in common they will accept you no matter if you’re skinny or voluptuous

Bricealan · Answer

Because he is fantasizing about having that voluptuous body, naked, under him, or over him or on his face etc etc.

slatyb · Answer

It doesn't determine whether I will like a woman, and I'm not the only man who feels that way.

MuchoCurioso2 · Answer

We are attracted to the opposite of what we are. Men have very boxy, rigid shaping to them. Women are uniquely nearly formless creatures. It doesn’t make sense to us and is beautiful.

Rapport · Answer

I mean, looks do matter to a degree but is it really the case that most guys standard is for a woman to have a body like that?

Andres77 · Answer

If you want a shallow guy that’s all he’s gonna see.

najekim · Answer

Voluptuous body would be the icing on the cake for me. I go by what's between the ears and chemistry.

shades777 · Answer

it matters that you look good to whoever your trying to hook up with, or else that soldier isn't going to salute 🫡

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't like real thin girls, so I seem to like thicker to girls with meat on her bones

zagor · Answer

It isn't. Guys have a variety of preferences in body types.

Actor3 · Answer

The body is natural is what men like and women too. But the more plastic the more the clown she looks like

Redeye69 · Answer

LOL... its not! It's only if they like your appearance... way more to life than appearance.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

We like voluptuous bodies, but it’s not what determines whether or not we like you.

Billlewis · Answer

Many guys prefer a plus sized woman who has some extra weight on her frame.

CubaPirate · Answer

That's not always the case I can assure you

Luckycharms12 · Answer

It doesn't

Guys, I don’t understand why is having a voluptuous body what determines if a guy likes you?

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