Why is it that I have men asking me why am I moving?

[cth2188]

Why is it a problem when a single woman moves?

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Why is this even a question- I've had 3 men do this..

[Sexiestjohnson]

The earth quakes when a single woman moves. Well I recently understood than single doesn't mean loveless or dateless. It is something greater than generous and liberal. Something richer than love. Something more like, love walking.

You see a lady like that, kidnap her with your whole heart and don't let her go.

[cth2188]

Kidnap her wow

[cth2188]

I know you mean well but that's what it's called

[Sexiestjohnson]

The word kid simply means baby. By extension pamper her. The word nap means sleep. By extension rest. Be her pillow. Be her bed. Give her comfort. Buy her with true and genuine kindness.

[cth2188]

OK interesting

[Gent207-2]

Personally - I'm just a naturally curious individual or may be it's the A. D. D.

Honestly my follow up response would be need any help? No? No problem, good luck.

P. S Make sure you have at least one trustworthy person catching your mail until you can change your address.

[Sparkie460]

Maybe they hate to see you go and they were trying to convince you to stay

[cth2188]

I'm single though and not tied to them

[cth2188]

Wives explain to their husband's- single women answer to noone

[Sparkie460]

You can do whatever you want. You don't have to answer to anyone. You do what's best for you and your family. Just know that you will be missed

[cth2188]

Aww thanks sparkie ❤️ I'm just living my life that's it

[Sparkie460]

Enjoy your life like you should. Your welcome

[spartan55]

Who said it's a problem?

[cth2188]

Clearly these men who asks why are you moving to a random stranger?

[spartan55]

I don't see what the big deal is... like at all.

[cth2188]

That's not anyone else business. People change and so does their lives

[spartan55]

Why do you think that they 'have a problem with it'?

[cth2188]

How would you feel if someone asks you why are you moving after you tell them you're moving and not interested in dating? It's silly

[spartan55]

If it's someone you'll never see again then why does it matter?
You sound like a real delight if something like this sets you off.

[cth2188]

Why ask me why am I moving? I didn't say it was a problem it's disrespectful af

[spartan55]

You said they were random strangers?

[spartan55]

Shit just make something up, who cares?

[cth2188]

It's not something that sets me off its stupid as hell then these men go on with when , what, where, how, and why not questions.

[cth2188]

So why care to ask?

[cth2188]

I swear something is wrong with most men of today. Really off shyt. ..

[cth2188]

Unless a man is taking care of me and providing for me I don't owe men shyt or anyone

[spartan55]

You didn't say it was a problem...
"why is it a problem when a single woman moves"
Hmmmm... but now it's 'disrespectful' lol... are you kidding me?

[cth2188]

It is disrespectful random men intentions are weird af and comes off creepy stalkerish

[spartan55]

Who said they care? Sounds like they were just making conversation. So I'm confused because first you said they were random strangers, then you said you rejected them for dating?
Yeah, this really something that is bad enough to set people off...

[cth2188]

That's like mecwalkinh up asking some one oh hey I heard you got a new job why did you get a new job? ( You don't know this person, but they felt compelled to ask

[cth2188]

I didn't reject them for dating my dating profile states I'm not interested in dating.. another thing you men do is twist words around and not listen

[cth2188]

I don't tell a man but 1 time I'm not interested that's it.. this post isn't about this

[cth2188]

Me walking ^

[spartan55]

So you feel they should have found your profile read your dating preferences on whatever platform before they can talk to you? Did they even ask you out?
I'm not twisting any words, I quoted you directly. That's not twisting anything, so nice try.
"asks you why are you moving after you tell them you're moving and not interested in dating" ...😂

[cth2188]

So you're admitting men can't read nor comprehend classic

[cth2188]

These men still come onto me despite my profile and asking me.. that's beyond that most of you men of today are weird af

[spartan55]

Apparently you can't read because I admitted no such thing.
So you are arrogant enough to think those guys should have read your dating profile? Lol...😂 You're right everyone else is disrespectful, weird, off... it's not you! 😂😂😂

[cth2188]

Nope it's some of you the other men got it but you have to go through the wash and rinse to understand this and understand that.. no man should be asking all those questions unless he's dating that woman.. times and days we live in that's call picking for information.. why I don't care for online dating, but use it at my own risk

[cth2188]

Right after these men ask there next questions were where am I moving... my status had nothing to do with these 99 questions these men were asking risking my safety

[spartan55]

I think you are seriously uptight and to get all twisted over someone making conversation is not a guy problem, it's a you problem.

[cth2188]

I'm not uptight I'm cautious that's due to the times and days we're in.. we're not in the era where women could leave and come back with men in one piece now you may come back in a body bag.. crazy times and crazy days... I use logical and common sense

[cth2188]

It is disrespectful to be asking all those questions and you thinking this is OK speaks volume about you are

[spartan55]

Riiiight... everyone else is disrespectful.. it's not YOU. Logical and common sense are so far from this conversation. You didn't even go out with these dudes and you are talking about body bags and shit. Personal safety is very important, but someone making conversation with you is something an adult can handle without getting all bent out of shape.

[cth2188]

Character etc

[cth2188]

I didn't say everyone was and I know this isn't all men but it's men of today for sure

[spartan55]

Sounds good 👍 Good look finding a guy to 'take care of you' 😂😂😂

[cth2188]

I don't need a guy to take care of me - I've been single and just fine since 2014 -2015

[cth2188]

The misconception with you men I'm fine by myself and don't date y'all assume women are single and lonely- I'm single and content it's you men lonely and depressed

[spartan55]

Sure thing. You don't need no man until you get a flat tire or a spider on your floor.

[cth2188]

I'll hire someone just like anything that breaks in my home hire a professional

[cth2188]

Sure can't rely on most men today not even ex husband's or bfs

[cth2188]

My oldest daughter knows how to change a tire at 11

[cth2188]

I'm one of those types of women hire a professional

[cth2188]

Unless something is compensated you change my tire here's the fee and extra..

[spartan55]

An eleven year old girl would not have the strength to loosen lugnuts or jack up a car. Just stop.

[cth2188]

I said she knows how to change a tire

[cth2188]

Cause her daddy taught her

[spartan55]

I'm sure he did, but there is the practical matter of needed strength to perform the task.

[cth2188]

Well I trust my daughter over men of today

[Wise4myage]

Maybe they are just curious?

[cth2188]

Curious about what? Who randomly asks why are you moving? People csn move for their jobs, family, etc.. I didn't think random needed sn explanation

[cth2188]

Men ^

[spartan55]

Yeah dude! Come on, how rude can you get? (sarcasm)

[Luckycharms12]

Lol no Idea