How do you know if your sneaky link has feelings for you?

[Anonymous]

I have been hooking up with a guy and he has a girlfriend. I feel like he started to get feelings for me and pushed himself away little. It's been about 6 months since we've been casually hooking up but he barely puts effort in now and he's hot and cold.

[_Maya_]

Good job you're a homewrecker and want advice. Hopefully he wised up and dumped you before his cheating ass got caught by his actual girlfriend which you are not. You are just a side piece used for your body. That is all you will ever be.

[Anonymous]

No, I think he’s juggling women but tending to her more, as his actually girlfriend. I’m surprised you’re even fine with this.

[Avicenna]

If you're just the side piece and he's still with her, there can't be too many feelings. More likely he just enjoys the sex.

[Asker]

He says we have chemistry that can't be explained. Early on he said he felt like him and his girlfriend were roommates and he was going to have a talk with her and it seemed like they would break up but he hasn't. We also work together... which I told him I wouldn't make it awkward if he wanted to stop and he has said multiple times he doesn't want to stop.

[Avicenna]

He's lying to you

[spartan55]

Lol. Hot and cold... honey you are fucking him. Nothing else.

[Nikki1989]

Cheaters will always get what is coming to them eventually. Don't play with fire.

[Wise4myage]

Why are you even seeing a cheater?