What do you find the most unfair thing about being a guy?

[ReginaGeorgina]

What do you experience as a guy that you feel is generally not fair.

[MementoMori777]

i believe the way society has turned their back on men is pretty unfair, there's not enough help for guys out there in general, men are known to have to just "deal with it" with most things and i believe its a big reason why so many men act out or have destructive mindsets because the truth is society creates monsters, the brain is like a storage unit, fill it up with enough crap and it will corrupt it, so if the mind is constantly consuming all this junk but has no way to release or extinguish it, eventually it will get corrupted, i feel like society rules off pettiness, here is one example its known for men having to pay for dates and thats hard earned money at the end of the day and if a man wants to pay for a date then by all means thats awesome, treat your woman on a date, but then when toxicity hits, it changes things, there's women I've known that went on dates with guys just to have a free meal and when the guy refuses, they say they aren't a man and that they are bad men, this might not be the case in society anymore but this is an example, my point is that petty things like this can effect a man because then they end up paying for things, get used and when they get tired of it, they snap and society just created a monster, i know i mutted this answer but im trying to make some points here, the way society treats men is destructive.

[ValeriusDover]

The fact that society expects me to be a cold, unfeeling psychopath just to be taken seriously. Showing any kind of emotion aside from anger or even so much as cracking a smile would make me weak. The fact that if I want to date a girl I have to make the first move, yet I'm supposed to risk potentially ruining my life and destroying my future in doing so. On top of that, I'm shamed for not having been in a relationship.

[boggboss]

Deoends on context as I think its unfair that inside of a modern relationship I guess I would call it its still expected on the man to push for all the major events or milestones for a relationship to progress even tho its supposed to be a 50/50 split and when its not the the age old but that's a man's job comes out

[BobLouis]

Nothing I like a woman who pampers me and does as I tell her to do.

Some women say all men are trash, but that's because that's what they like, so why not just be a fuckboy and get sex and money. I am not going to waste my best years making money so I can say "yes dear" after a woman slept around and didn't give me her best years. Its normal and nothing wrong with being a guy who puts himself first.

[inhua]

dismissing men's issues and believing men's issues can't possibly exist yet insisting men care about other issues. men's issues are often mocked, ridiculed and belittled in a condescending way

[jahaims]

Vulnerability is used against more often than not against us and it is justified by some because we are men.

[exitseven]

When you go to a bar looking for someone to have sex with the odds are pretty slim like maybe 1% that you will not leave by yourself. If you are a girl those odds jump to 99%. it is just not fair

[DannyUk2017]

Not being observed... unless i have money!!! 🤷‍♂️

[SnowedIn]

No multiple orgasms like women have.

[Anonymous]

That it is so hard for us Guys to even get a date with a Girl let alone have Sex with Her.