Why are some boys who like me so rude to me?

[Anonymous]

I have a coworker who likes me a lot (stares at me, literally without looking away, made it quite clear he likes me) but he is really rude. I’ve had this also happen a few times with men being really rude to me initially before admitting they like me.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Cartoons have made fun of this predictable behavior for generations.


The extremely short answer is that they don’t understand how to express or cope with their own feelings.

[Jazzy54]

You used a keyword: boys. Grown men don’t act like that.

[Jazzy54]

Anyway, don’t give people like that the time of day.

[jahaims]

They don't know how to express themselves

[noohair]

It is am immature way to protect the male ego.

[Malwi93]

then they dont like you LMAO

[In_Trance]

they don't like you as much as you think they do