Why would a guy want to keep looking up my profile when he wouldn’t date or be friends?

[Anonymous]

I don’t get it.

[Billlewis]

Because guys are fascinated about how often you're having sex as well as who the lucky guys are whom you're having sex with.

[Billlewis]

I've had quite a few female friends who were dating or married, and some of them actually looked forward to describing to me in vivid detail how their most recent lovemaking session unfolded with their boyfriends and husbands. The element of frustration is a powerful turn on for many women, especially if they've been in a relationship for a long time and they'd like a change of pace to spice things up.

[spartan55]

Aren't you pretty old to be concerned about this?

[Jazzy54]

He likes you, but he might have a girlfriend or a wife and he doesn’t want her to know that he’s looking at other women.

[strateguy632]

he must think you are pretty to look at.

[Anonymous]

He likes you duhhh

[Asker]

If he likes me, why doesn’t he want to be friends?

[Opinion Owner]

Shyness add him

[Asker]

I don’t think I should. He’s told me through mutual friends that we’re not friends, we don’t talk anymore and he blocked me on his official page. Then he made a new one, subtly letting me know it was him, with a different surname and added mutual friends. Then proceeded to make fake aliases to communicate with me. I suck at reading social situations, but I think he’s made it obvious that he doesn’t want direct contact. I’m probably either being gaslit, or if he’s saying he’s shy, then he expects some soap opera drama where I chase after him. Not going to happen.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you ask him?

[Opinion Owner]

He's probably just a lurker.

[strateguy632]

can't ask kuz asker wrote he wouldn't be friends.

[In_Trance]

he's bored