Why does he slways look at my profile if he doesn't want to be with me?

[Anonymous]

[DoggyDude]

I think people who are into online stuff, generally check out people they know, and also the systems put in place by the corporations running the sites often direct people to check other peoples profiles.

Also there is just the possibility of accidentally checking it out. I know that sometimes when I look at my notifications I can accidently click the profile of the poster vs the notification.

The real question is, why don't you interact with the person and discover how they feel? You could even, in a relaxed way, joke about how he's always checking your profile and see what they say. Might be a start of something.

[Asker]

I've tried interacting he may be taken and not interested :(

[DoggyDude]

Well, I just recommend messaging him enough detail so you know you've reflected your feelings about him then leave it there.

The reason is, if you don't reflect your feeling level, you might always wonder how it may have played out had you. If you make a one off message expressing yourself (to the level your comfy with that your happy for anyone to know) then you can relax rest assured its nothing you did or didn't do, he got to know how you saw him right then then decided not to follow up (rather than never knowing there was something to follow up upon).

Just think carefully about how you express yourself so you don't come over, unbalanced or water it down too much that you wonder if he caught your hint.

A good medium play is, post something like "I saw you and really like what I know about you, I'd love to know you better". It's a nice safe, obvious "I like you" without coming over too strong, so you can leave that your last post knowing if he doesn't' come back to you, he's taken, not interested, or only considering people he meets IRL.

[spartan55]

What does looking at your profile have to do with wanting to be with you?
Answer: NOTHING

[laly520]

let him look
it doesn't really matter since he doesn't wanna be with u

[slatyb]

He likes the picture (s).