Why are people in Instagram comment sections so rude?

[CoolCatMar1]

I had several guys attack my comment about me saying that my boyfriend likes my body a lot and prefers me over any other girl's body, and told me "he is lying to you to make you feel comfortable" or one dude said "so you prefer to be buttless rather than have the butt of the girl on the video?" . First of all I do have a butt just not a disproportionately HUGE one , which suits my body and sticks out just enough. I don't even have photos of my butt on social media I don't get it how those dudes even judge my body from Instagram 😂 and i know my boyfriend way better than they do to know he isn't lying lol.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think some guys are intimidated by woman they consider unobtainable and they try to put her down so they can equal the inequality they perceive she displays to him. I've had guys make up lies about me after I turned them down because I made them feel disempowered by rejecting them and they think if they can make my life worse, they get some of their power back.

[ShesRad80]

i call them keyboard warriors, they have nothing else better to do then bring down another person. its sadly the state of the world a lot of people have sunk that low. they are mean because they choose to be mean, it gives them some sort of feeling of power to hurt another person with no repercussions for their actions

[htmndg183]

Because they feel like champions behind the keyboard. They can't stand to see others happy even though it has zero impact on their lives. I find it strange tbh. If someone has so much free time. Might as well make it productive rather than having an unnecessary go at a stranger.

[CoolCatMar1]

Makes sense

[CoolCatMar1]

https://ibb.co/r7fMqRw

This is the girl. My boyfriend thought she had a disproportionately shaped body anf i agree and i am glad my body is skinnier in the butt area. I do have a butt just not a disproportionate one. If u like it that's ok but my boyfriend and me don't. And that's ok

[htmndg183]

I don't like it tbh.

[CoolCatMar1]

If u noticed she also has small breasts while having this butt

[CoolCatMar1]

I also have small breasts and big booty😅 just not THAT big of a booty

[htmndg183]

Doesn't matter. That is different from person to person. Doesn't make you any less of a woman. I'm glad i am not judgmental of these things. And i never have and never will reject a women based on her breast size lol. If im attracted to a woman, that is that. Its a bit more to do with her as a person who she is which will keep me attracted to her.

[CoolCatMar1]

Actually, WHAT even is wrong with having small breasts for men not to like it? Tbh I don't see how it's a problem lol. I have been stared at in public numerous times and today in the bus one girl was looking at my body and my face a lot and i felt so good about myself. It's obvious that people find me attractive. Small boobs aren't unattractive. It depends on the woman, her body, her face and proportion. Small boobs can look sexy.

[htmndg183]

Exactly! Its not a problem at all. Agreed!

[CoolCatMar1]

Hehehe

[Truthatanycost]

Are you sure there isn't some element of truth to anything they said?

[CoolCatMar1]

No i don't think so

[Jonnyanalog]

Why do you care what some nobodies on IG have to say and why does it worry you enough ask this? You need to stop worrying about what other people think and be ok with who you are.
It took me a long time to figure that out. Don’t fall into that trap like so many in your generation do. It’s not worth it. You’ll end up with terrible anxiety or worse.

[AngryCarl2]

If you share your personal life on the interwebs you are going to get comments, and most people who bother to comment are going to be angry or horny, possibly both. So if you actually have feelings and care about how other people perceive you, you shouldn't be posting personal stuff online.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

you just answered your own question!

Instagram is nothing but a cesspool where social media sluts go to show off their bodies in exchange for fame and attention. so like that old saying goes, if you can't handle the heat then stay out the kitchen

[BobLouis]

I just don't even bother trying to figure out why people act like that. But it sounds like they are jealous of your boyfriend.

[CoolCatMar1]

He literally said "ypur boyfriend is lying to you" while my boyfriend was single 6 years was trying to find a girl who would be 100% his type personality and looks wise. Found me after so many years and is happy with me. His friends literally thought he was gay because of how many girls he rejected. And those Instagram comment section dudes had the nerve to say hr is lying to me just because i am not their type😅 they are IN NEED OF HELP

[Minahh]

You know how it really is so don't listen to what other people say. Is he making you feel like you're not enough? Are there any indications? If not then that's just other people's bs.

[CoolCatMar1]

I agree. Also he wouldn't approach me if my body was ugly to him. I am his type he literally liked Emily ratajkowski before me now he thinks i am even prettier than Emily lol. I believe him. I feel people. Also before meeting me he was single 6 years that his sister , mother and his friends were shocked when he started dating me. He rejected so many girls. He is picky. It's a compliment to me that he is dating me. Those dudes who say otherwise ate jealous that I would not look at them and that's true. When i ak outside I don't look at anyone anyway 😂

[DryGermanGuy]

Why do you still put yourself in the position to get riled up by shmucks on the internet? Are you masochistic or something?

[NathanDavis]

people can be rude everywhere and anywhere... not just Instagram

[RyanK9b]

If you're with your boyfriend since ≤ 3 years then you know nothing.

The guys probably assumed your ass out of the context with the text or video.

Also we are direct, we don't sugar coat stuff. Thats why our advices are mostly better.

[CoolCatMar1]

lmaoooooooo my boyfriend is the type to not sugarcoat anything and when someone fucks up or if he doesn't like someone lookswise he will say it. He wouldn't even date me if I wasn't his type. He is the pickiest guy i have ever met. You know nothing about us

[RyanK9b]

Sure I know nothing about you specifically. But I know guys.

You perfectly describe it.
Someone else

Guess what would happen if he would say to you, yeah your body is ok.
U don't have to answer that specifically, i know the nuclear fallout.

Guys lie all the time to girls bc they can't handle the truth and get hyper mad about it.

[mommymommymommy]

People are rude everywhere, GAG, Insta, facebook, it's called "internet trolling", republicans do it all the time

[LiamJHayden]

People who are unnecessarily rude like that are pretty unhappy in life. It is best to ignore them.

[Christoff92]

Because it's instagram. They want and feel that what they do on IG is better. So this is really a competition 😬

[AmeerX]

Don't let the social Media poison your mind Mar Cat 😺

[BLP11520]

Instagram is full of mean spirited people , , men there are frustrated little A... holes who spank it

[Siri137]

It's Instagram. Isn't everyone rude on Instagram?

[WhitneySnow]

They’re just jealous

[MikeTheBartender]

Weak men w nothing better to do

[alearningboy]

People love to say something behind the computer.

[barn_stormer]

haters gonna hate