Do introverted men remember very specific details about women that they are interested in or is that a friend thing?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy I know who is somewhat reserved with women but he remembers all sorts of things about me and is very supportive and encouraging of almost anything I do. He also seems very interested in my life because he asks me many questions. But sometimes when we're around other people he is not as open. Any thoughts?

[ericclayton]

He's observant and intuitive. He obviously cares about you but is very shy and introverted in larger groups. I would pursue this.

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply! Do you have any suggestions?

[ericclayton]

Well if he's on the autism spectrum as someone else suggested, you're going to have to be very direct. I really don't think he's going to say no.

[Anonymous]

He has a lot of romantic interest in you. I'm an introvert myself.

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply! How can you tell it's romantic vs friendly?

[Opinion Owner]

He seems to have all of his focus on you. I would put that much effort if I had romantic intentions with this girl.

[jahaims]

Sounds like he could be on the spectrum

[Asker]

That's so interesting! I and others have thought the same which makes it even harder to know what's going on.

[jahaims]

You're both adults. Just talk to him.