Guys, how would you feel and what would you do if your 6 month girlfriend suddenly tells you she's slept with 20 guys before you?

[sheikalana]

[inhua]

any dude in their right mind would instinctively think why didn't any of the 20 guys commit to her? of course they have to lie to themselves because they just want pussy

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've been around the block enough times that Garmin has offered to sponsor. I'm not going to be a hypocrite. I only care about how many she's slept with after me.

[Luopio27]

If I ever get into a relationship, I will not want to know of her sexual history. All that matters is that she doesn't have STDs, she isn't a cheater or a player.

[Anonymous]

I'd say ''thanks for a delightful 6 months, and for making me #21, I'll be going now as I don't want to cramp your style finding #22"

[sheikalana]

What if you were both so in love with each other?

[Opinion Owner]

Sad for a while but still would move on

[BarryLiverstone]

Pour her another shot. I mean that’s in her past. Isn’t that normal to share our history with our SO?

[sheikalana]

Yea but isn't 20 men a bit too much for a women in her early 20s.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you want to judge and shame her go for it. If she’s healthy and mature then it’s not too much.

[BarryLiverstone]

My body count is 24. So if I have had sex with over 20 people it seems hypocritical to be shocked that she has as well.

[sheikalana]

Men often shame women for having more than 5 sexual partners even though they've had way more than that.

[BarryLiverstone]

Those men I don’t agree with. Shaming women seems negative in this aspect.

[EaterPeter]

I would ask for honesty that are you sure before and that's high body count anyways

[EaterPeter]

It's a huge deal breaker

[EaterPeter]

High body count should be shared up front as below 7 or above 7

[EaterPeter]

7 or below should be ok 8 + should be a problem

[EaterPeter]

Bcoz of chances of STIs

[EaterPeter]

8 or more STI STD chances increases significantly

[Anonymous]

That's a lot for someone my age so I would end the relationship. I have slept with 3 different women.

[Anonymous]

Why would you suddenly tell a guy unless he asked?

[sheikalana]

I don't know. This post isn't about me. I was listening to a podcast and a guy broke up with this woman he was dating and was really in love with because she suddenly decided to tell him she used to F*ck around when she was in university.

[Opinion Owner]

I have had 24 sexual partners. Most of them happened before I reached 30. My attitude about sex now is different. I don't do casual sex and the partners I've had were women for whom I felt affection and we were dating exclusively. If a girl has that same atitude, I would not judge her for her past practices, unless her number was like 100 or more.

[roy_ricky09]

Okey. Bbye Tata toodles

[sheikalana]

Why would that bother you?

[roy_ricky09]

Simple answer. Here was the 21... now go

[sheikalana]

You're still not answering. Why does it bother you?

[roy_ricky09]

You are 34, don't you know.

[sheikalana]

You're really avoiding the question...

[roy_ricky09]

Because there no question.

[BarryLiverstone]

She asked why would it bother you. and you failed to answer her question

[sheikalana]

@BarryLiverstone he's super quick to judge but doesn't even know why he's judging.

[SnowedIn]

Fine. Past is past.

[Andres77]

When I was 20 or now?

[Andres77]

Now, as long as I knew she was disease free…or if I was 20 I wouldn’t care…I’d go down on her and ask for all the details…and munch away

[Anonymous]

Ask if she can take a test for all stds

[sheikalana]

That's all? Would you consider breaking up?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s a lot more than me, but I may not break up if she is someone that I really like and get along with. The past is the past basically.

[sheikalana]

Fair enough.

[monghjay2]

hahahahah lol

its over