Girls , if a guy confessed he had a crush on you after 10 months, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

So basically what happened is that there was a girl from college, and i DMd her on insta and confessed to her that i had a crush. She seemed interested back then.

She told me “hey, how are you? thanks for the confession, i respect that. We can be good friends I have no problem in that. What do you do now?” She then sent me a follow request.

i said “im also good, thanks. I work now, wbu?”

she then blocked me.

my friend called me and he told me that the girl called him, and that this is what she said: “i liked him back then, but he is telling me after 10 months that he also liked me. It’s frustrating. I have a boyfriend now and can’t speak to him anymore.”

[Anonymous]

I know you’re asking how we women would feel, but I think the focal point here is her, and you already know how she feels. As stated, she’s frustrated because you waited so long to confess, and now she isn’t available. Maybe she initially thought you could be good friends, but thought better if it, as it’s disrespectful to her partner. Blocking you sends a very strong and clear message — there’s no chance of you two happening, and she wants no kind of relationship with you. I think it’s best not to dwell, respect her stance, and move on.

[Asker]

I know her point on it. But how would you personally feel if a guy did that to you? Would you also feel frustrated?

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t be frustrated at him without taking some of the blame too. Just as he could’ve confessed, so could I. But I think a lot of women have the idea that men should approach first.

[Billlewis]

She'd probably think you're very shy.