Would you confess to a guy you had a crush for 4 years knowing that now he has a girl friend?

[Anonymous]

This guy you had a crush on is your best friend , you liked him for 4 years now he has a girlfriend they have been together for 2 year now and you used to be the one who gives him advice on their relationship issues. It didn't bother you at all , she is a great girl but the end of school is nearing and your untold feelings leaves you with a taste of unfinished business, would you confess to him to ease your feeling knowing that your relationship with him will change or will you let it go knowing that there is a chance that after school you will never see him again and have hanging feeling about this all your life?

[SueShe]

Let the past rest in peace and don't ruin a friendship just for the sake to have your peace of mind after so many years.

He has now a girlfriend and confessing may change a lot of things with his relationship. Perhaps that he is not in a happy relationship and that by telling him, you make things worse for him.

But also, confessing your feelings to a best friend of the opposite gender is also the best way to ruin your friendship because he will never see it the way he does since there are those feelings that ruin everything.

[RoseySarah]

Nope cause what can he do? He has a serious girlfriend!

If you have to write him a pong love letter get those feeling out!

Then burn it! Or give it to a friend!

[spartan55]

Telling him would be pretty selfish, and could put him off.

[Nikki1989]

Nothing to be gained here, just let it go.