Guys, Gym guy checking me out or not?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I go to gym, I find myself looking for him. And when he's there, sometimes he'd try to workout/exercise beside me, but not always though. And we sometimes have eye-to-eye contact for like 2-3 seconds. I get too shy, so I stare away.

He has approached me twice before, to ask if we could use the same machine alternately. I agreed, but we didn't talk, no conversations. I mean, what am I supposed to say? He didn't ask me any questions either. But after that, nothing. He didn't approach me again after that but I see him looking at me sometimes. Am I overthinking?

[karekaaaa]

No he wanna talk to u sure

[Asker]

Really? How come he hasn't approached? Though it might be awkward to hit up someone at the gym, so yeah. But he is staring, not doing anything.

[karekaaaa]

Waiting for the right moment

[Asker]

Interesting. We'll see in the next few weeks if he'll approach me then. He has caught me a few times staring at him too 😅😅😅 But I'm a lady, I cannot talk to him first. I'm too shy 😆

[karekaaaa]

Try to force him to talk to u

[Asker]

How? He won't even smile at me when passing by. It's just plain staring. We're catching each other's eyes. Sometimes when I'm running on the treadmill, he'll use the one next to me. I don't know, maybe waiting on who will approach first. Not me though 😆

[karekaaaa]

Sure
May dm me so we can talk more in it and find a way?

[Asker]

Yeah, you can dm me

[Asker]

Oh sorry. I tried, but I can't DM you. Hahaha. Sad

[Anonymous]

They all want you.

[Asker]

No, just one guy. And he never tried to approach me again, just staring. What do you think? Is he interested or not?

[Opinion Owner]

Consider approaching him?

[Asker]

I honestly don't know what to say and he's the one always staring. Why would I approach first? And what if he rejects me? Hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

Because your interested.

[Asker]

So he's staring at me because he thinks I'm interested? And he's not interested enough to approach me again, is that it? He's enjoying the attention I'm giving him, is that right?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you are correct. He's probably very shy too.

[Asker]

Well, why did he approach me in the first place? He approached me twice, asking if he could borrow the machine I was using. Then after that, I see him staring sometimes. He made the first move, then does nothing after.

[Opinion Owner]

Because he’s obviously attracted to you.

[Asker]

Men are confusing