A friend of mine told me to make a private snap story with only my crush in it so he could see me but a bit spicy. First time i posted a photo he said “wouldn’t expect you to be this revealing ngl” and i asked if it was bad and he said “no it was good just wasn’t expecting it” snd asked him he liked it and he said it looked good. Flirted a little.
Did it a 2nd time and he said “damn” and i said “thank u its not much but hey” he said “pretty good tbh” and we would flirt a little bit. I did it again and he said “wow” and said “ you’re just gettin a little more comfortable each time tbh, “at this rate it might be a nude 💀” and I told him “ okay i will slim it down a notch” and he said “i mean idc, i was just making a joke about how at this rate you’ll just end up making nudes if you keep gettin more comfortable. idc what you to tho tbh” and i didn’t catch the joke during that time which i said “ohhh Nah no I’m not like that so dw 🤣🤣🤣” he then said “yeah you’re good, don’t let my opinion sway what you want to do tho. if you’re getting what you want out of those pics, go for it” i said “ok” and sent me a “;)”.
I like this guy but I don't know if i should stop doing those risky photos or not. He seemed interested since last month and i even asked if we could hangout after we move into our apartments for college. He said sure and that he wanted to come to my apartment. But I don't know what would we do. I don't know if i should make moves or wait.
Did it a 2nd time and he said “damn” and i said “thank u its not much but hey” he said “pretty good tbh” and we would flirt a little bit. I did it again and he said “wow” and said “ you’re just gettin a little more comfortable each time tbh, “at this rate it might be a nude 💀” and I told him “ okay i will slim it down a notch” and he said “i mean idc, i was just making a joke about how at this rate you’ll just end up making nudes if you keep gettin more comfortable. idc what you to tho tbh” and i didn’t catch the joke during that time which i said “ohhh Nah no I’m not like that so dw 🤣🤣🤣” he then said “yeah you’re good, don’t let my opinion sway what you want to do tho. if you’re getting what you want out of those pics, go for it” i said “ok” and sent me a “;)”.
I like this guy but I don't know if i should stop doing those risky photos or not. He seemed interested since last month and i even asked if we could hangout after we move into our apartments for college. He said sure and that he wanted to come to my apartment. But I don't know what would we do. I don't know if i should make moves or wait.
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What you're doing is one of the most effective ways of preventing a guy from taking you seriously while eroding your self esteem. Try not following the crowd. Think how many other women are posting nudes or questionable content and trying to use their body as leverage, or to get attention. In short, look at what the majority are doing... do the opposite. A little modesty, self respect, restraint, self esteem and femininity goes a very long way. Your friend is unwise but is likely following the trends and usual crowd.
Here's the catch. When ever you do something raunchy that makes a guy stop taking you seriously, or see you as just another girl, he will never tell you the truth and he will still hang out, still sleep with you...
How do I get him to change his mind about me?
Guys are visual so spending time around him face to face is key. This is assuming you are feminine, smell good, reasonably attractive and easy to be around.
I am those things yes. But I don't know if I should do the first move or not. I never done this before.
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Ops... I always feel that it is natural for us guys to make the first move... and if we aren't then we aren't interested enough to do so!
Okay I’ll wait for him to take the first move
I mean he obviously wants to see more but he is just playing it cool. I don't know if you do send more just keep your face out of it at least. Good luck