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If it was happening to you would it be ok?
Not ok haha
Lmaoooo you put it straight simple and the fact that she hasn't replied really speaks volume
Not at all okay. Very creepy, highly stalker, and damn I feel for this poor guy.
Just talk to him. And respect him if he rejects you.
He's probably feeling anxious and off with a stalker around, anyways. Maybe not consciously, but sometimes people notice things subconsciously and the sort of trust issues having a stalker can breed in a person can be very traumatic.
Think about the effect you're having on him. It isn't positive, and it sure as hell won't make him like you any more.
Lmao i did it one time at a basketball game in 8th grade 🤣 my crush from another school was at our away game and i didn't think i’d ever see him again, so i took my friends phone and snapped it. I told her to send the pic to me but instead she printed it off in black and white for me to hang in my room 🤣 made me feel creeepy so i never did it again
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Nope, that would be the definition of stalking. Also it doesn't benefit either of you, on their end they may notice they're being followed, but you aren't flirting with them or anything. On your end you foster your crush more, but make it harder and harder to follow through and actually talk to them as you build more of an image or idea as a person rather than just finding out what they're like.
That is creepy. Even my neighbors are stalkers but the bad stalkers just to give envy and hateness.
What is the point secretly taking pictures when you can have him physically? I mean you want a guy to grab you, kiss you and later couple days or weeks show your naked as*, get some.
Instead wasting time walking around stalking him taking pictures just wanting him. Are you afraid to be rejected? Really filming lol that is way far🤦♂️😂.
Besides I thought that was a tall as* female. Lol.
It isn't exactly a problem or wrong, but it's a little weird, kind of sound like you may be getting close to obsession territory. I e kept a pic or 2 of my besty I use to crush on, and even tho she is a friend and I actively talk to her still I'll admit it would look weird cause it is kind of weird. But we are close enough that we have a pic together and the pic I've got is a facebook post, i didn't sneak up and snap a pic when she wasn't looking. Do you talk to this guy? If he's your crush why dont you date him? Did he turn you down or is currently in a relationship?
I've actually had a few women who I've never seen before take pictures of me. one time I was walking out of bed bath and beyond and I had some woman who was sitting in her car take pics of me with her phone she even took a pic of me sitting in my car and took a pic of the license plate number. Another time I had a different woman take a pic of me while she was walking out of stop & shop to her car and I was sitting in my car and she takes a pic of me. Mind you I never seen any of these women before in my entire life. Now if that ain't some creepy shit right there I don't know what is.
It's not okay.
Illegal or not, this behavior indicates obsession and lacks social skills.
If I like someone I'll make friend with the person, then ask for their photos later. I wouldn't like to waste my time daydreaming of someone unapproachable and act like a creepy creep like that.
Unless that guy is a Kpop star, I get it. (Not that I mean it's okay.)
No. It's also very bad for you mentally and emotionally.
Just go up and talk to them.
Don't tell them about the pictures, unless you become friends and at some future point want to confess it to them at a moment when it might be found to be funny.
I stalk but not that much. That's going into unhealthy than just curious or interested. And it's creepy to take a photo of someone without there permission. Even tho if a girl did it to me i would be happy because well that's just complement but then again i do hate how i look in photos especially.
It's kinda weird, but as long as it's not a full on stalker deal I guess there's no harm. Honestly, if you have a crush, you should ask him out instead of watching him from afar. If he's single, there's a good chance he'll say okay to at least one date.
I think you already know the answer.
Just imagine finding a guy filming you or filming your friend (girl) you would go on a witch hunt I'm sure.
Well that's the same thing. Your heart might be in the right place but that doesn't make you any less of a creepy stalker
Today, with phones and phone cameras, WHO DOESN'T sometimes catch a precious moment, maybe of someone they love, or something a kid does, or your Hot, totally unavailable Lesbian best friend, with her partner? LOL!! :) :)
In public, you really have no expectation of any privacy, as people are taking phone pics all around!!
Well flip it round. If a guy you didn't wanna fuck was hiding in the bushes, taking photos of you and your friends, and fapping all over you like you had a creepy stalker... would it not make you think... you had a creepy stalker?
I think that's quite a bit over the top and definitely crosses over into stalker territory. If you want to look at a picture of your crush, look them up on social media and take a look at the pictures they have uploaded for public viewing.
I felt really weird when this guy did that to me when I used to work in customer service so I would say no.
It’s a eerie, creepy feeling.
Haha, although the picture was fire and I ended up keeping it... it was still strange
I feel like it's ok to people watch and daydream with the goal of finally getting the guts to go and talk to her but taking a picture or video... Yeah that's a little extreme
Just gonna put it out there, if it feels necessary to you to do this, I can almost guarantee you will never be with that person. Nice guys may finish last, but stalkers never even make it past the starting line.
The hair is probably what made people think he was a girl which I thought as well when I first looked at him. But taking a closer look I can see he's a man.
Also I don't no that's called stalking, no one likes a stalker.
Honestly, one or two should be enough but they got to be real good shots
. Like. Be cool about it &
don't be a creep
Be nice, u know.
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No, even if I was tempted to do something like that I would end up deleting it straight away. There's just some things I'm uncomfortable of knowing I've done and that would be one of them lol
He looks hot lol. But even so, Id probably be creeped out by him doing that. Here in the US you wouldn't be able to stop him even if you called the cops about it.
A pretty good rule of thumb is to ask yourself if the person would be ok with knowing you took the picture. If not, don't take it. But if you know them and assume they'd be cool with it, why not?
No. Someone's likeness is their own, and if he needs to be sneaky about it, he knows it's not right. "You're only as sick as the secrets you keep" as they say.
Honestly I don't think you're doing anything wrong with it. But what is wrong however that instead of pictures, you could walk up on him and give it a shot
No, that's definitely not ok, it's stalkerish and you're filming someone without their consent which you can be sued for.
Unless they are a celebrity, I don't see that was acceptable. Be empathetic and tell me that doesn't seem creepy.
It's legal but eh. It's a bit too stalky for my taste and I don't like people taking pictures of me, especially without my approval. I would much rather have you take a picture with you and I instead, asking me first of course.
No, but if I saw someone doing that I wouldn't pay them no mind. I have a strict "mind my own fucking business rule".
No, it's rude. I get why you did it, but it's disrespectful.
From a legality standpoint; you can take secret photos of your crush. It’s suuuuuuuper creepy though. If you don’t want someone to think you are a creep; don’t act like one
Dont... dont do that. Illegal. They own every right to that photo. Kinda weird. If this is something you do then you need to either finally come out and tell him or take a step back breath.
When people are out "in public", there is no expected certainty of privacy, so lawfully, you are within your rights to record. From a practical standpoint, you might to just hold off a bit there.
Yes. I hide behind bushes and on rooftops and stuff.
That is stalking and being a victim of stalking myself i know the damaging effects it can have. Stop and get help
As long as you just keep those pics for yourself, then yes
Why would you take pictures of secretly that is just WAY beyond CREEPY, not to mention illegal!
I think it's fine unless you are like hardcore stalking them
It's a bit creepy. But technology makes it really easy to be a bit creepy these days
Absolutely not. If your crush ever finds out, good luck. You'll already start outbas a creepy person who they can never trust.
It is totally okay,
Heart wants, what it wants..
You don't have control over it..
Even if it’s illegal? And creepy? So what if the heart want something more dangerous would you still say its ok too? Like for example : a man film your daughter naked because he can't control over what his heart want 🤔🤔🤔😂
I have in the past of one in particular. She was showing off her new bikini. Ijust couldn't help myself I find he sexy dressed but the bikini put it in to another level..
Well technically speaking no but yeah thats fine, go ahead.
I have downloaded my crushes' pictures on my phone and kept them there. Don't share them anywhere though.
No it’s not ok. I wouldn’t want others to secretly take pictures of me so why should I do it to them. Unfortunately I know a few girls who have done that.
If you think that's ok that's disgusting and so are you
Of course not !! It's not okay ! That's creepy and scary as hell
Ok from a legal sense/prespective? Odd from what happens normally prespective...
I'm not even sure if it's legal to take pictures to someone without their permission.
Do you think they'd like it? If there's even a half-decent chance that the answer is "no", then I don't think it's ok.
That's creepy. Do it when they are in front of you. I never take pics without the person knowing or I show the person immediately her pics because they are usually funny.
That’s super creepy, if the crush ever found out it wouldn’t end well.
No. That's stalkerish. I'd be pissed if I found out someone was doing that.
No i dont think its okay. Even tho you admire them but its too much for the person's privacy.
Actually in some states here in the USA. It's considered stalking. And very illegal. So, no unless they give you permission. It's not okay.
That looks like a girl..., And no, legaly, it's not ok, but hey, this is America, you can do what you want
Well, as long as you don't allow others access to then, you aren't breaking any laws. You're just very, very pathetic. Like, extremely...
I don't think anyone would like to have their photos clicked secretively like that. Kinda creepy and somewhat undesired I believe. So no, not okay
imagine your crush, and I mean your endgame crush, secretly taking pictures of you while you aren't looking cause they like you back?
As long as you don't post it on social media without their consent, yes
taking it shouldn't be.. but sharing it here should be.
Yes its okay, as long as your the main character in real life.
No I wouldn't, because its an invasion of that girls privacy.
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