Legality and morality are not the same in this case. Think about how people react online to stalkers taking pictures secretly. they are not viewed well by society. Why? that strongly indicates obsession - which, sorry, can lead to gruesome murders like on TV. Trust me, it's all seemingly awesome to a guy where a female will be obsessed to the point of dedication and sexual pleasure... but when that crosses the line, and with obsession it always does, people like this will go to insane lengths to keep what they got. Back off a little before he finds out and you lose all chances. or maybe get some help.
Not at all okay. Very creepy, highly stalker, and damn I feel for this poor guy.
Just talk to him. And respect him if he rejects you.
He's probably feeling anxious and off with a stalker around, anyways. Maybe not consciously, but sometimes people notice things subconsciously and the sort of trust issues having a stalker can breed in a person can be very traumatic.
Think about the effect you're having on him. It isn't positive, and it sure as hell won't make him like you any more.
Lmao i did it one time at a basketball game in 8th grade 🤣 my crush from another school was at our away game and i didn't think i’d ever see him again, so i took my friends phone and snapped it. I told her to send the pic to me but instead she printed it off in black and white for me to hang in my room 🤣 made me feel creeepy so i never did it again
Nope, that would be the definition of stalking. Also it doesn't benefit either of you, on their end they may notice they're being followed, but you aren't flirting with them or anything. On your end you foster your crush more, but make it harder and harder to follow through and actually talk to them as you build more of an image or idea as a person rather than just finding out what they're like.
That is creepy. Even my neighbors are stalkers but the bad stalkers just to give envy and hateness.
What is the point secretly taking pictures when you can have him physically? I mean you want a guy to grab you, kiss you and later couple days or weeks show your naked as*, get some.
Instead wasting time walking around stalking him taking pictures just wanting him. Are you afraid to be rejected? Really filming lol that is way far🤦♂️😂.
Besides I thought that was a tall as* female. Lol.
It isn't exactly a problem or wrong, but it's a little weird, kind of sound like you may be getting close to obsession territory. I e kept a pic or 2 of my besty I use to crush on, and even tho she is a friend and I actively talk to her still I'll admit it would look weird cause it is kind of weird. But we are close enough that we have a pic together and the pic I've got is a facebook post, i didn't sneak up and snap a pic when she wasn't looking. Do you talk to this guy? If he's your crush why dont you date him? Did he turn you down or is currently in a relationship?
I've actually had a few women who I've never seen before take pictures of me. one time I was walking out of bed bath and beyond and I had some woman who was sitting in her car take pics of me with her phone she even took a pic of me sitting in my car and took a pic of the license plate number. Another time I had a different woman take a pic of me while she was walking out of stop & shop to her car and I was sitting in my car and she takes a pic of me. Mind you I never seen any of these women before in my entire life. Now if that ain't some creepy shit right there I don't know what is.
It's not okay. Illegal or not, this behavior indicates obsession and lacks social skills.
If I like someone I'll make friend with the person, then ask for their photos later. I wouldn't like to waste my time daydreaming of someone unapproachable and act like a creepy creep like that.
Unless that guy is a Kpop star, I get it. (Not that I mean it's okay.)
No. It's also very bad for you mentally and emotionally.
Just go up and talk to them.
Don't tell them about the pictures, unless you become friends and at some future point want to confess it to them at a moment when it might be found to be funny.
I stalk but not that much. That's going into unhealthy than just curious or interested. And it's creepy to take a photo of someone without there permission. Even tho if a girl did it to me i would be happy because well that's just complement but then again i do hate how i look in photos especially.
It's kinda weird, but as long as it's not a full on stalker deal I guess there's no harm. Honestly, if you have a crush, you should ask him out instead of watching him from afar. If he's single, there's a good chance he'll say okay to at least one date.
I think you already know the answer. Just imagine finding a guy filming you or filming your friend (girl) you would go on a witch hunt I'm sure. Well that's the same thing. Your heart might be in the right place but that doesn't make you any less of a creepy stalker
Today, with phones and phone cameras, WHO DOESN'T sometimes catch a precious moment, maybe of someone they love, or something a kid does, or your Hot, totally unavailable Lesbian best friend, with her partner? LOL!! :) :) In public, you really have no expectation of any privacy, as people are taking phone pics all around!!
I loved making pictures of a past girlfriend, purposely, as she said she wanted to!! I was taking a Film photography class, and it was all monochrome, and she wanted to be part of my "Art" having seen what I was photographing.
Well flip it round. If a guy you didn't wanna fuck was hiding in the bushes, taking photos of you and your friends, and fapping all over you like you had a creepy stalker... would it not make you think... you had a creepy stalker?
I think that's quite a bit over the top and definitely crosses over into stalker territory. If you want to look at a picture of your crush, look them up on social media and take a look at the pictures they have uploaded for public viewing.
I feel like it's ok to people watch and daydream with the goal of finally getting the guts to go and talk to her but taking a picture or video... Yeah that's a little extreme
Just gonna put it out there, if it feels necessary to you to do this, I can almost guarantee you will never be with that person. Nice guys may finish last, but stalkers never even make it past the starting line.
The hair is probably what made people think he was a girl which I thought as well when I first looked at him. But taking a closer look I can see he's a man.
Also I don't no that's called stalking, no one likes a stalker.
No, even if I was tempted to do something like that I would end up deleting it straight away. There's just some things I'm uncomfortable of knowing I've done and that would be one of them lol
He looks hot lol. But even so, Id probably be creeped out by him doing that. Here in the US you wouldn't be able to stop him even if you called the cops about it.
A pretty good rule of thumb is to ask yourself if the person would be ok with knowing you took the picture. If not, don't take it. But if you know them and assume they'd be cool with it, why not?
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