Why men on here ALWAYS ask if women find men attractive or not like why just why?

[CoolCatMar1]

[Alli39]

Some dudes just want validation. Though most people just get that from instagram or whatever.

Others, especially some of the loudest ones, also want validation, but in a different, slightly weirder way. They want confirmation that women don't find them attractive to back up their beliefs that the "system" is rigged against them and their inability to find a romantic or sexual partner is the fault of women and broader society, as opposed to luck, personal failings, or life choices. It's an unfortunate mindset.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

They think just because women don't find them attractive that we must find any man attractive. Some dumb guy on here thought I was asexual just because I didn't want to sext with him. 🤦‍♀️

[PrettyCrumblBb]

*must not

[CoolCatMar1]

They are so entitled

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah lol I can find one guy sexually attractive and not the other lmao I ain't asexual

[CoolCatMar1]

Yesss

[ericclayton]

Check out the plethora of "How Do I Look" posts, a great deal of those posted by pink anons. Both do this. This site is a magnet for socially awkward, insecure people.

[CoolCatMar1]

Lmao

[ericclayton]

Not what you wanted to hear, obviously.

[CoolCatMar1]

No it is

[ericclayton]

My mistake.

[ericclayton]

Thanks for MHO!

[SnowedIn]

🥺 ... but... but... do you find me attractive or not? I can't live without your approval!!!

[CoolCatMar1]

😂😂

[SnowedIn]

Pleeeeeeeeeeese approve of me!!!

[Nikki1989]

Men on here are painfully insecure at the best of times.

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahaha they claim women don't find 99% of men attractive lol

[Nikki1989]

Well, obviously it can't be 99%.

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahha yes

[Kingofkings1992]

Especially about height and penis size. Lol

[CoolCatMar1]

@Kingofkings1992 yess

[msc545]

It's actually 80% statistically. 80% of men are found to be ugly by women.

[Christoff92]

Men are always looking for apprisal from women because they believe would give them self-confidence and high self-esteem.

They think and believe only a women's opinion towards them would make them the men of today. Without realizing every single man has his own individual self. His true self and noble self. Don't need a women's apprisal to begin with 😀

[Billlewis]

Because we're practically obsessed with your opinion of us. Our sense of self worth and value is determined by whether you're pleased with our appearance or effort, skill, technique or some other category. For us to feel good about ourselves, we must first measure up to your standards.

[TallAnon]

This is not a gender issue, both sided do this.
Why? They're insecure and want positive reinforcement. Excluding trolls posting other people they get them made fun of, ultimately boosting their ego because they have not received this negative feedback, since they haven't gotten any.

[jamesgoldman]

I don't know, I guess they are looking for validation of their looks because of vapidity

See I view myself as a humanisation of let's say something about on par with pond scum

[Truthatanycost]

Billlewis doesn't speak for all of us. Not all men care as much as that...

[motownplayer2000]

I think it’s because they are desperate. When you get desperate you ask dumb questions. These men chasing after the wrong thing. Chase money and the women will come. Women always follow the money.

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't follow money... My boyfriend right now isn't in his best like he used to be but i didn't leave him i love him lol

[motownplayer2000]

Key words: “use to be…” he had it, then he didn’t. But by then you had feelings for him. Men usually have to get past the initial phase of landing a woman… keeping her isn’t nearly as hard.. and if a man has money, he doesn’t have to worry about keeping her. She has to worry about keeping him

[CoolCatMar1]

When i fell for him I did not know how much he earns i just saw him and thought he was the most handsome guy ever and just wanted to be with him. I thought he was a mechanic at the factory we worked together then and he actually was in charge there and earned more than Most people there. His car is nice his body is nice his personality is nice everything is nice

[RavVid]

We think women are definitely good looking and attractive but lately women are saying men are ugly so maybe we are curious about that.

[ChiTown33]

I don't think I've ever asked that. I'm not sure I've ever seen a guy ask that on here either.

[CoolCatMar1]

They do

[Likes2drive]

I guess they want to hear the truth from strangers to know for real is what I think

[Sparkie460]

Probably the same reason women ask the same question.

[CoolCatMar1]

Nope men on here claim that women don't find any dude attractive and only male models and they claim women only like 1% and ask if women find men in general attractive. I haven't seen such questions from women.

[Brady]

True Sparkie460

[dolemite58]

women are just more and more into lezzing out with each other, men feel lost 🤣

[Sitaraxx]

They need validation

[Andres77]

is there a pot and kettle in here?

[MementoMori777]

No idea, people are dumb I guess

[AmeerX]

Reassurances 🤣, nothing else

[Charliefretz329]

I don’t trash talk em

[gothbxtch]

why do men

[Brady]

Girls do that 2.

[eagle1951]

beats me