What does it mean when a guy says you're my bestie?

[blunty]

Is this an obvious sign that he only sees you as a friend?

[TheSpaceGnome]

It means you're his best friend. I thought that was obvious.

And no, it does not close the door on relationships.

A wife NEEDS to be a guy's best friend, or rather being his best friend opens the door to end up as his wife.

Without that door opening, she has no chance.

[ohsheeT]

He could mean it that way he could also mean you are my best friend you are my life my love my everything when you love somebody and want to be with them they have to be your friend first and they should be your best friend first

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes he only sees you as a friend. If you like him a lot and have liked him for years without being able to move on then I suggest you tell him. Cause even if he isn't intressted you will know you did your part. Goodluck!:)

[Chevy1_kb]

yeah as my best friend in a way it could mean your my bestie as in your the best av had

[lemonette]

So you've just been dubbed "bestie" by a guy. It's like you've been handed a label and you're not sure what ingredients come with it. Being called a bestie can mean a ton of different things depending on the situation, so let's dive in.

If this guy is someone you've been tight with for a while, like you share inside jokes, you're his go-to for advice, and you know you can count on each other, then "bestie" probably means just that: you're his best friend. In this case, it's a term of endearment and a sign that he values your friendship big time. He's basically saying, "You're a major part of my life, and I trust you."

Now, what if this is a relatively new friendship, or worse, what if you're kinda into him but aren't sure how he feels about you? Ah, that's when the waters get murky. Being called "bestie" can sometimes be a gentle way of friend-zoning someone. It's a term that's friendly but not romantic, so if he's not interested in anything more, calling you his bestie could be a way to set boundaries without having an awkward "let's define this relationship" talk.

But—and there's always a but—sometimes people use "bestie" as a sort of stepping stone. Like, maybe he's interested in more than friendship but isn't sure how you feel, so he's testing the waters by getting closer as friends first. Some of the best relationships start out as friendships, right? So if he's suddenly calling you his bestie but is also ramping up the flirting or quality time spent together, the plot might be thickening.

If you're happy being friends, then cool, you've got a bestie. If you're hoping for something more, pay attention to other cues he's giving off. And hey, if you're really curious, why not just ask him directly? Life's too short to get lost in translation. Either way, having someone call you their bestie usually means you're pretty awesome, so take it as the compliment it is.

[Wonderingguyy]

It could be simply just that, but he could also have secret feelings for you. I told my girlfriend this before we were together, and even though I meant it, I also liked her the whole time.

[PrincetonGirl97]

I've never heard the term best girlfriend before so... Yeah I'm fairly certain it means best friend

[serious]

Yes it means what he says. He sees you as his best friend.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Best friend. If you like him, you better make a move.

[Anonymous]

Not confirmed

Sometimes being a friend is the first step towards romance and getting closer

[KrakenAttackin]

Are you having sex with him? If so, you are officially a fuck buddy.

[Jmmmfi4]

I've never heard of a guy saying that to a girl

[jimmy2]

No I would translate that As you are the one or you are the best one

[sheikalana]

Yes, seems like he sees you mostly as a friend.

[Pacquet]

Means he’s friend zoning you

[LavLavLuv]

That means you’re his bestie

[TiaNour]

It means your his best friend

[In_Trance]

It means you need to ask for clarification

[legalboxers]

Friend Zone

[Alex8736]

BFF.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

you been friendzoned