Do guys tell women they feel lonely?

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RoοstеrBrеаst · Accepted Answer

You've asked if guys tell girls they feel lonely when they don't really feel lonely and if they should or shouldn't say such things. The truth is, guys are often just as clueless and inadequate when expressing their feelings as the girls they are pursue. They may not fully grasp their loneliness until they're in it. And when they do feel the loneliness creaking into them, they often have no idea whether to tell you, their girlfriend. But here are two scenarios for ya:

Scenario 1) You and the guy in question are watching that new horror movie where the monstrous demon-cock-thingy slimes its way across the screen and into the room. It's terrifying but it feels so real, like your own horror cock could appear any second. And so, the guy says to the girlfriend he's been seeing for the past six months, "Babe, I feel pretty fuckign lonely tonight. Do you feel that too?" He knows this is the first time either of them has ever acknowledged their loneliness to one another, so he takes that risk because he wants to know.

Scenario 2) The guys in the scenario before were too afraid of their horror cocks and decided to not bring up loneliness again. Instead, one day while playing video game and the horror cocks weren't around to remind them of it, it just happened, one guy says to his best friend "Damn, buddy, I feel so lonely sometimes. I don't know who to confess that to. What do you think I should do?" And his friend says, with a deep understanding of the struggle "Well, man, you gotta be the one. No one will know you feel that unless you say it." So the guy finally tells his girlfriend.

So yeah, there you go, it depends. Sometimes they'll say the truth, sometimes, it might take an interrogated monstrously fanged horror member to make them confess. Either way, it's better than staying lonely and bottled inside.

Elpedro74 · Accepted Answer

Most don’t, most guys don’t share emotions like that with their friends let alone a girl most guys are worried that the girl will think that the guy is soft and not “manly” which is a big problem as guys bottle it up instead of talking which isn’t good at all

iseekpinetrees · Accepted Answer

Yes lol most often they say it hoping for some girl to feel bad and pitty fuck them.

Emzyyy01 · Accepted Answer

Some do, some don't. Would likely depend on the closeness between two people.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

If she is a good enough partner, he shouldn’t be lonely in the first place.

In all fairness, if his partner is active and doesn’t need an equal amount of attention, as he, from the get go, he should have cut his losses sooner rather than attempting to cage her.

Now, if she showers him with love and affection at the beginning, but then begins to pull away; the reasons for doing so must be discussed. If the guy is at fault then he has two choices…..

ManOnFire · Answer

The only guys who will seriously tell a woman he's lonely are the ones who are trying to get laid. Similar to the guys who will literally volunteer the information to a woman that he doesn't have a girlfriend, hoping she'll want to date him. Apart from that, most men don’t put that out there for women to know.

magiusX26 · Answer

usually no. no matter how much women profess to wanting to know stuff like that, the actions tell the truth of it being the exact opposite. women, if they will even actually listen, more often than not, look down on, make fun of, weaponize, and/or patronize a guy for showingtexpressing most emotions. even worse if they are already in a relatiinship because (possibly subconsiously) she will loose respect, attraction, abd trust in the guy once he does so.

ManofHistory · Answer

Not a chance, lol. I don't really tell anybody that I am lonely and was actually just coming onto GaG to leave a post about feeling sad and lonely.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

The one time I did, she responded by making the conversation about herself and told me how I needed to step up my game

Pegases · Answer

Only if I've deemed the woman is trustworthy, would I ever want to express that level of vulnerability.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

Not anymore. You'll just get made fun of. Or, she'll weaponize that information. Or, lose respect for you.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No. Women would see that as weak and clingy.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most do. The rest are too emotionally weak to express it.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

When i feel lonely, i do tell anyone that i'm feeling lonely, it isen't a shame if someone feels lonely, don't women feels lonely too?

Kabluie · Answer

Yep, and they don't always have to be direct about it. Some do, hinting about doing something that ends up sleeping over.

genericname85 · Answer

i think that's just the default for men, so why talk about it?

Anonymous · Answer

The times I've tried to be vulnerable with female friends or romantic partners has never really went well. It's either a demeaning pity or repulsion. Telling a woman I feel lonely feels like I'm giving her ammunition to shoot me with.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

No, they would think you’re trying to sleep with them 😆

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

If I had to good woman to tell, I'd not be lonely.

DerekC321 · Answer

No, because women look down on guys who tell them that.

Akam93 · Answer

I hope so. I feel like some are afraid to speak up.

shades777 · Answer

that's something you dont go around sharing with women, they value a man with options and being lonely says you ain't got none

Guido · Answer

Guys rarely share feelings like that unless they are extremely close to the woman as they have been married for at least a decade.

scooogy · Answer

No, he buys some steaks and cuts faces into them to turn to for a talk during barbecue.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't, but it should be very obvious that I am.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

If we do it's a sign of weakness and you will get rid of us.

Juxtapose · Answer

Sometimes. Usually it's when they want you to help remedy that situation.

jeffend888 · Answer

No because they don’t give a shit. Why would they care?

AlbantheGreat · Answer

I do it, to some women, sometime but it doesn't improve my life, so isn't it kind of useless?

dragoblack · Answer

Yeah, but no one wants to listen or care when a guy is vulnerable. In fact, many just walk away.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Sounds like they believe in honesty? What’s wrong with that? Ugh

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

I don't, cause I don't look at b----es as my consolant.. Bitches want u, when u got something''.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Almost never, maybe with the exception of family.

Anonymous · Answer

They do when they trust you or when they wanna get laid.

inhua · Answer

no because it's frowned upon

rachel776 · Answer

alllllll the time

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Lol guys feel lonely by default.

Grond21 · Answer

The average man rarely does

In_Trance · Answer

I'm sure some of them do

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, maybe like a "Wish you were here" thingy

spiritGirl13 · Answer

I hope not but pretty sure they do.

boobliker · Answer

not normally it's a women thing

Fuentes · Answer

What @krakenattackin said but ain't lonely

grega239 · Answer

No.  Its a mistake to do so

Anonymous · Answer

No smart ones. That's not a turn on.

BLP11520 · Answer

I do, why hide the obvious?

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Maybe it’s an abortion

jimmy2 · Answer

We can see it on females

sheenagwapa · Answer

they dont

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

yes they do

Anonymous · Answer

No, never.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nope never

shortster · Answer

I do it sometimes

Reijen · Answer

They shouldn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Almost never

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I do

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