Girls, Are there any attractive women that get ignored my men (for instance in the workplace)?

[Anonymous]

Or am I just ugly?

[_Maya_]

Unfortunately at my current workplace that is unlikely to happen. I work at a bar so I get hit on all the time. It isn't by coworkers but by patrons. Alcohol is what we call liquid courage and give guys a few drinks and they'll say just about anything to me and other female staff. I'm used to it at this point. I bet in a more professional setting maybe they are ignoring because they view attention as potential sexual harassment.

[Anonymous]

I am a relatively attractive person, though it is hard for me to admit it because I was raised in a conservative home whether beauty was never praised and even discussed. It was all seen as vanity. Anyways, men find me attractive overall but I am not every man's cup of tea, hardly any woman is... I work in a male dominated space where I am treated very kindly by most Men but none go out of their way to talk to me. I know two who definitely have a crush on me. One never says anything to me or chokes when I say hello. The other blushes and gets shy sometimes and always wants me to start conversations with me and then he can feel comfortable speaking. I have heard two others comment among themselves about who they think I am "gorgeous," but they never initiated any conversation with me either. Lastly there are two others who are both taken and yet extremely effusive and kind to me. I only keep my talk with these guys professional but I like one of the guys back and can't do anything about it. I think I have always had pretty privilege but only recently embraced it, before I was completely clueless about it because I was very focused in being studious and successful. I am single as a Pringle though and no man that I like ever goes for me even when he likes me. So it all feels a bit pointless because I don't need to be liked my all these guys, I just want one guy to love me loyally. he's one of the guys at work.

[Moniinmiddle]

Uh YAH! That's work. Your boss could fantasize about you and you would never know. Don't set your self worth or looks based on how many reactions you get at WORK. You don't want to date anyone at the job anyway especially being female which I assume you would date a man, that's drama. I work in a hospital.. DRAMA. dont do it. BE GLAD they ain't looking and actually they are looking just not when you're looking!