What do you think about a guy who isn't interested and when girl says she's seeing other people he says then all I will be interested is a friendship?

[Anonymous]

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What do you think about a guy who appears not interested romantically and when girl says she will see other people he says well if you see other people then all I will be interested is a friendship.

[_Maya_]

Huh? I am a little confused by the wording. I think I know what you are asking and will answer based on that assumption. So if a girl indicates she is seeing someone and the guy says he is only interested in a friendship I don't see anything wrong with that at all and completely normal. That isn't a time that most guys are going to turn around and say I want more than a friendship if the girl is dating someone. I could see them giving her the cold shoulder if they were into her and missed their chance but just wanting to be friends if she is in a relationship is completely normal.

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply. I realize it was confusing so I updated the question. So I mean lets say the guy doesn't appear interested romantically, so the woman says how do you feel if I see other people and he says then at that point I wouldn't see you as anything more than a friend.

[_Maya_]

Replying to the update... my opinion hasn't changed. If the girl says she is going to see other people what is he supposed to say? No? He is just saying that all he wants to be is friends if she is going to date others. Maybe he wanted to date her but there is no chance if that is what she said. Even if he appears uninterested that doesn't mean he wasn't/isn't. People have different ways of showing interest.

[DextroShade]

The friend-zone is for losers.