Can I just ask a guy at the gym if he wants to fuck or is that weird?

[Anonymous]

ok i moved to a small town for grad school. There's a college next to it. But I'm 25 and in grad school. College kids are too young for me. My apartment complex has mostly grad students and it has a gym which is hellllla small. I go there and there's some cute guys sometimes. by the way my apartment complex doesn't have thatttt many apartments. It's small. Should I just ask one of them if they want to have fun I can give them my number lol or am I just a hoe

[ProbablyClueless]

You definitely have the ability to ask like that lol but he's probably going to think you're trying to set him up.

If a woman said something like that to me, even if I was knockout who had lots of women making eyes at me all the time, there is no shot I would take you up on that offer. On the off chance that a woman being that forward was somehow actually interested in me (as opposed to a prostitute offering her services), she'd need to have current STD testing and (because of my line of work) she'd have to pass the kind of background check that would make a cavity search look like a coffee date.

[Asker]

im a virgin lol offering just oral oops have only made out with 2 guys and fooled with 1 guy my ex who was also a virgin

[ProbablyClueless]

A virgin, huh? Well, that makes the offer even harder to believe! lol An attractive woman I don't know walking up to me to randomly offer me her virginity... it's just too... pornographic (I guess?) to believe.

[Asker]

lol nooo not my virginity just want some oral

[Asker]

no pussy sorry maybe my ass tho too

[Asker]

pussy only if u can put a ring on it

[ProbablyClueless]

When people ask other people to fuck, they usually mean having sex beyond oral. If you want to suck the guy, you'd be better off specifically telling him that you want to suck his dick.

[Asker]

suck his dick and he can fuck my ass

[Asker]

do u think a guy would be opposed

[ProbablyClueless]

You don't want to let any man inside you who would say "yes" to that offer. That said, I always die a little inside when I hear what other men are down to do, so maybe you'll find a guy who likes the idea.

[Asker]

why not let them in lolol.

[Asker]

most guys are like wtf this virgin would do anal. most guys think that's sexy lol

[ProbablyClueless]

The kind of guy who would be comfortable hooking up with a stranger he randomly met at a gym is the kind of guy doesn't put much thought or selection into who he hooks up with, so there will be lots of other women you're exposing yourself to. Anal also has a higher risk of STDs

[Asker]

truee ur right

[rigmarole]

You have freedom of speech say whatever you want. It's equivalent to guys just walking up to random women on the sidewalk asking to fuck. You'll strike out a lot and get a bad reputation, but you might find someone that will take you up on your offer eventually if you have no standards.

[ItsChloe1999]

Do it babes!!! Don’t worry about being a hoe, embrace it!!! I’m a massive slut as well, if it was me, they’d already be my pants!!!

[WhiteBoyChill]

Why should any woman embrace being a slut? It’s a shameful state of existence

[CatVader]

if you want a simp that's the way to go about it.
if he says no though. well. you got put in your place by someone who knows his value.

also know for future reference what makes a woman have value to a man.
one of those things high on the list is low body count.. so just be aware of that.

you do you. God bless.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If he's not an idiot he's likely to think it's a set-up if you do it in a gym, with all the "Creep shaming" videos coming out now a days. I wouldn't even talk to a woman in a gym if she's not going out of her way to talk to me.

[normalice]

That's pretty much every guy at the gyms dream, as long as he is single. And even for some guys who are not. Maybe walk in front of mirrors a bit to confirm he looks at your butt or something first, though.

[Billlewis]

No, that's not too weird, but I'd try to have a conversation with him first, before you ask him that.

[Alex-Snow]

It is normal to want some sex and if there are some hot guys go for it. Just make sure you have a bunch of condoms handy. What is wrong with college guys (undergrad) are they not good enough in bed?

[Asker]

just too young i dont want to see someone young lol. Im not a cougar

[Alex-Snow]

I get it... I see u said you were a virgin and only wanted oral. I think most guys would love to give you an oral orgasm if you gave them a good handjob or bj. How have your experiences been with your ex on this?

[Asker]

wdym he got me to cum. he was a virgin too so i easily got him to cum bj and even quicker with a handjob tbh lol.

[Alex-Snow]

I bet he loved the orgasms!

[AviatorTom]

If that's what you want to do, who am I to stop you? Go ahead, be blunt and ask the guy over to your place for some fun.

[jshm2]

If any show interest, ask. But just creeping on them like a pedo at the gym, is just wrong.

[FunkyMonkee]

If that gets you what you want, I don't see why not.

[Pohjolan]

Just ask him out. If some gal asked me if I want to fuck out of the blue I would assume that she is fucking with me.

[tfan1]

Find the one you like there, flirt with him, invite him in, and see where it leads

[DaBiggestBird]

For the sake of equality, you should just assume you’ll get 20 years in prison if you do that so no

[Nifrayu]

I'm sure it would work on some guys. Just make sure you can handle rejection.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Not for me, but a lot of dudes will appreciate your directness.

[Jerre]

I think you shud go for it. It doesn’t make you a hoe, you just enjoy fucking like I do.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Maybe form personal connections with people first before asking them to get in bed with you

[slatyb]

Do what you want. No one else gets a vote.

[DarkWinterNights]

I would be weirded out.

[AustColombiangirl]

Not at all. I’ve done it plenty of times

[BrookeS]

Good girl

[Avgbrisbaneguy]

go for it, be a great new workout session

[Anonymous]

That is weird.