What is it with men who get in a relationship and always come back in contact with the one who didn't want to be with him?

[Anonymous]

He said she was good in bed and wanted a relationship with her but she wanted to take everything slow.
He didn't want to wait and saw it as "she doesn't know what she wants" while she knew he cheats in every relationship and hoped that he would change but luckily she found out that he didn't change, so she said she had other plans for her future, and yet he still contacts her to try to get her in bed.
She still doesn't want anything to do with him, for her it's over and she won't meet him again.

Why won't he give up? While she keeps saying no and she won't take action to meet him.
As if he is addicted to her and he hopes that she sees pass all that?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's messed up behaviour from that dude. Seems like he's got major issues respecting boundaries. Probably cuz he's used to always getting what he wants in the end.

My guess is he's so hooked on the challenge of chasing after what he can't have. This girl rejected him, so now he sees it as a game to wear her down till she gives in.

Or maybe deep down he knows she's out of his league and he's just hopelessly addicted to that feeling she gives him, even if she ain't good for him.

Either way, she's smart as hell to keep blocking him out. Dude clearly hasn't changed if he's still trying to get in her pants after everything. She deserves so much better than some cheat.

Hopefully in time he'll get the hint and move on. But she should watch her back - somebody that obsessed could escalate to stalker status. Stay safe!

[HippoDino]

The guy is a moron, she needs to just directly say she will never date him and block him, no reason to even respond to him or let him message you.

[Asker]

You are so right! He keeps finding way to do so.. I don't get why he still doesn't get it that it won't ever happen again and that he needs to wake up.
I feel sorry for his partner

[spartan55]

No, he will keep trying hoping you say yes.

[Asker]

You mean he thinks that he still has a chance? Or he just really wants to until he gets his way?

[spartan55]

Both

[Asker]

Oh so it's just about fun for him

[spartan55]

If sex =fun than yes

[Asker]

But why keep trying to have sex with another while he gets into a relationship from one to another one?
Seems like he is bored and yet comes back to a woman multiple times who he won't end up with because of her choice