Canceled date 🙁?

[Anonymous]

This guy I was supposed go out with last night ended up canceling on me and said “let’s try again for the weekend tonight’s not a good night”. Do you guys think I should go out with him again? We’ve hung out before like 4 times and he’s rescheduled like 3 times on different occasions. Is just a very busy man with work? Like am I reading into this too much?

[Finchie40]

It sounds like he is playing you and weighing his options , he more than likely is seeing other girls as well, whether he is or not, just shows you are just a convenience to him. Do yourself a favor and move on and no longer waste your time with him. When a guy really Likes a girl he will climb mountains to be by her side , he won’t make excuses not to see her. Don’t fall for this shit , you will only be hurting yourself if you choose to do so. Never be someone’s option or
Convenience , only date people that make you a priority , that treat you the same way you the same way you want to be treated in return , when I really like a girl , I don’t care how busy I am at work , I will still make time to see her , even if it’s just seeing her for a few hours or so , just having her in my presence is all that matters, I will tell her what time I am done work and tell her I want to see her no matter what we end up doing , we can sit on my patio and hang out for all I care , just as long as we get to see each other , when someone makes excuses not to see you , they are just a waste of time , and more than likely they are weighing their options , do not waste Your time being with someone that doesn’t prioritize you period. You deserve better than that shit.

[Lynx122]

If it's a repetitive thing I wouldn't talk to him anymore.

[spartan55]

He isn't interested.