Guy said I intrigue him. Why?

[Anonymous]

He’s an online guy.

he wants me to send him pics

so is he just saying that so I will send pics?

[DaveJord]

Yes, when a guy says intrigue, it means you got his attention, but that does not mean it's for the right reasons. Like he's curious, more than interested, but he could be interested if you want him to be, but you got to give a reason to want to be interested other than just texting.

But yeah, he wants the pics first.

[Asker]

Ok cool he’s not getting pics.

[Asker]

I don’t just do what men say. :c

[DaveJord]

Thats honest and a good policy, stand by it and be upfront. I think that is a good way to be. Man or woman.

[Asker]

Thanks. He can always fly out and see me in person.

[DaveJord]

I always tell women, you got to show up first. If you really are interested then show up, until then it's all words. Like you got to understand, women say things all the time and never follow through... so you show up and I will be here. Until then, it's all on you.

[DaveJord]

But I will be honest if does fly out he want to know are you going to make it worth his time, because las thing you want to do if put that type of time into something and walk away with nothing.

[Asker]

I’m not that type of person who want to waste someone’s time. I feel like if a man wants you he should make the effort to come get you. If he thinks it’s a waste of time to put effort then that’s fine.

[DaveJord]

I agree I hate to waste my time, or waste anyone else's time. But if women think the man has to put out the bigger effort and then he does... then you better make it worth his while, or you are just doing damage.

[Asker]

Lol. Doesn’t work for me. I know my worth. Maybe you talk to girls who lower themselves for men. Not me. 🥰