I am not fat but I have a little bit love handles, and my ex used to tell me that they look quite sexy... Is this real? Do guys really like it when girls have love handles?
People have diverse preferences when it comes to physical appearance. Love handles, or a little extra weight around the waist, are a natural and normal part of the human body. Some guys may find love handles attractive, while others may have different preferences.
What matters most in any relationship is the emotional connection, personality, and compatibility between individuals. Physical appearance is just one aspect of attraction, and it doesn't define the entirety of a person. Many people prioritize qualities like confidence, kindness, a good sense of humor, and shared interests over specific physical attributes.
Beauty standards REALLY vary among cultures and individuals. Some guys may appreciate love handles because they signify a softer, more natural body shape. Others may not focus on physical appearance at all and are more interested in a person's character and values.
So, the idea that guys universally like or dislike love handles is a generalization. It's crucial to be confident and comfortable in your own skin, as self-assurance and a positive self-image are often more appealing than any specific physical feature. Building a strong, healthy relationship is about much more than physical appearance.
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Hmm, I think it depends. If it's straight up you just being overweight then no but if you're living an active lifestyle and still have some curves and love handles to you then I don't mind. It can look quite sexy sometimes, depends on the person
Guys can like anything that is female and they will tell you what you want to hear. Given a choice, 11 times out of 10 men would choose girls without love handles. However, most men don't have a choice and more than half the men would fall all over themselves to have you just as you are.
I think most guys don’t think they’re sexy but won’t be turned off by them either. Sorry if that isn’t the answer you wanted.
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Ofcourse... is like a Stabiliser... For Us, when you thrust back, we don't end up on the wall behind us...😂😂😂
Let’s put it this way… we don’t mind them at all. My current lover have almost zero fat. And the last time we were having sex I bruised her side, no love handles, no padding. So they serve a good purpose.
There are guys Who is into skinny chicks like one of my mates and there are also guys like me Who likes thicc ones specifically oh there are also guys Who doesn't give a damn and could actually fell in love with a fly if they are female.
Love handles are not a trouble for me, I find them very uselful to squeeze in some hot moments. I don't see where is the problem if you are in a normale shape although you have a bit of love handles.
What do you think about them on men?More cushion for the push'in, I say.
Nobody really like skinny girls. But they make good arm candy.
It’s not a preference for me, but if she ticks the right boxes then it’s not a deal breaker
Yes I prefer a girl with some meat on her bones , so love handles are sexy to me
I like it, mainly because they would be more likely to accept my being overweight.
Small love handles are fine, but it's always good to prioritize personal fitness.
Maybe some do but not me. I also don't like girls with hard bodies. Like them soft and smooth, but with no loose fat.
Guys will say no... but if you can build a strong connection with a good guy, he won't care.
Oh my God, yes!
Never! Huge turn off! 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
Look, as we age they can appear, so , yes
I personally don’t like as much
Small love handles are fine.
Absolutely
They happen 🤷🏻♂️
Little ya
Some do
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