Do you often judge a book by the cover?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My friend thought in a relationship I’d have lots of red flags and it would be not safe to fall in love with me,

then when we walked he asked me a but about my past relationship and then he figured out, I am not actually a red flag and that my ex was toxic. He changed his opinion on me and he said I am not a walking red flag and he apologized for misinterpreting me and told me I am just who I am and I am amazing the way I am. So not to worry about his words as he no longer thinks so after our conversation, guess he judged me superficially before.

[dynamicyandere]

I give everyone a chance to show me who they are through their actions.


Some people see someone look a certain way and then make assumptions about their personality.


But, looks can always be deceiving. So, I try to allow their actions to speak for them.

[love_conquers_lust]

Sometimes that’s all we can see.

I think we’re often blinded by our own red flags judging ourselves through rose colored glasses. It’s perfectly serviceable to want to be nice. It’s sometimes difficult to deliver on that promise, being kind.

[Sparkie460]

I don't pass judgment on anyone until I get to know them better. Some people are not who they appear to be at first glance. Some people think it's a waste of time to spend time to get to know someone. I find it therapeutic to meet new people and get to know them.

[Joshydavid25]

We all do it.. It's human nature and can be a point of caution or discernment.. But many people take it pretty far and hold it as their beliefs... So yeah I do slightly judge a book by it's cover, but that doesn't mean I don't give any people a chance to prove the little judgement I have wrong.

[OfMiceandMen]

I mean everyone has their initial thoughts about someone when they first see them, but I never just assume what I'm seeing is the whole picture.

[Sevenpointfive]

men tend to judge a woman on their looks first then get to know them. so i do judge the cover.

[Miristheiss]

With people?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

For dating, a lot of times yes.

[LiamJHayden]

It depends. If I see a dude with "666" or a Swastika tattooed on his forehead, yeah, I will be judging. But in most instances, no.

[AngryCarl2]

If you mean books, no. If you mean people, again no. I always thought Hitler looked like an accountant.

[TomMarks]

No, it almost never an indication of what it is really like.

[loveslongnails]

Depends on how severe the cover is presenting itself.

[soe11]

• Normally I don't do that.
• Some cases by accident

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Some gals said "no" t' Me cause they thought, I wz evil.

They were told, "Don't judge a book, by its cover", and y do gals still do it?

[BLP11520]

No I don’t I have been wrong about people several times. Getting to know someone takes time

[Nikki1989]

No, I like to read the book.

[smashleyy]

i use to but not anymore. nothings black and white

[Bethany22]

No, I try to see both sides of the story

[Jennz6]

Some people do

[Iron_Man]

No dynamite comes in small packages

[Fuentes]

Nah i don't judge people til I meet them.

[Chthou95]

Most people do. It's human nature

[sheikalana]

Sometimes.

[lilaccc]

sometimes