Is it normal I’m a woman who doesn’t want to be around women because they are mostly very conniving controlling fake and play mind games?

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I’m not a mind game player. I want to only be around men.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yea unfortunately most women have a hard time getting along with each other , mainly because most women love to cause drama and gossip about people behind each others back and pretty
Much be a friend to your face , but behind closed doors they are bashing you , Why most females have this kind of behavior is beyond me but it seems to be pretty much an insecure , jealousy thing , so when a girl tells Me she really doesn’t have girl friends , I respect her decision and understand her reasons behind it , I am not saying all girls do this , but it seems like a lot do , I prefer dating a girl that doesn’t have a lot of girl friends mainly for the fact that most girls’ start shit and sometimes try to interfere in your relationship and cause drama, My ex met a group of girls’ that pretty much ruined my relationship with her , by feeding her head that all men are assholes and that all men lie and cheat , and that all men are control freaks blah blah blah , when I tried talking to my ex about how toxic her friends were , my ex completely ignored what I had
To say and started yelling at me that I was being insecure and controlling when really that wasn’t the case at all , I was just trying to express my feelings of concern to her but she wanted no parts of it , it all went in one ear out the other , My ex started prioritizing these girls over our relationship to the point I knew my relationship was coming to an end , so I just let her go do her own thing and I started to do my own , They were going to bars and clubs and dressing up to seek attention , I told my ex if she wants to live a single lifestyle to go right ahead because I will do the same , her so called best friends were not her friends at all , sadly to say , because behind her back a few them bashed her to me , I laughed and shook my head and just kept it to myself , because my ex didn’t want to hear anything I had to say because apparently I was insecure and controlling , as a few weeks went by , I knew my ex was being up to no good by the way she was distant from me and not showing anymore affection towards me , no kissing no hugging and she started sleeping on the couch , my gut instincts knew something was off to find out she was secretly flirting with a co worker and planning to meet him at a hotel , she tried having her friends cover up for her, but little did she realize I was on her tail , I busted he meeting him and that’s when I ended the relationship when I had solid proof to take her ass down on court , a few of her friends called
Me to say they were sorry for everything that happened and her one friend showed up on my doorstep and we ended up having sex , So just goes to show , never choose
Your friends over your relationship , your so called friends can easily back stab you and ruin your relationship

HiveBee · Accepted Answer

I like how some are like "NUH UH! EVERYONE THE SAME!!"

So the patriarchy has no effect on our behaviors than?

But if men and women are all acting the same, than the patriarchy is a lie, because men and women act the same, there is no difference in behavior.

So yea, it's clear and obvious that women are verbal backstabbers and men are more physical.

There is some degree of overlap as there always is in a spectrum.

But I think it's clear and undeniable that many women avoid other women and prefer the company of "the guys."

And that's fine. It is what it is. For some reason we need to deny it as if everything is all equal. Meanwhile the feminists are raging about the patriarchy, saying we are all brainwashed by it, yet nobody is really affected because hey, men and women are the same.

y'all are funny.

Hinaaaaa · Accepted Answer

Well it's true woman are more annoying then men but not all are same too but some men are drama factories too 🙂 but the interests & hobbies some women have are boring too...

🤣Well nowadays everything a person does gives people PICK ME vibes just because someone is different than others that makes someone pick me lol

Well this pick me thing is CRINGE itself! Created by people who follow the Matrix Sooo bad...

A_Bell · Accepted Answer

That seems a bit strong.

Frankly, I do not have a big circle of female friends (more now since I had kids) because I agree to a point. You just need to meet compatible people. And there are plenty of unsavory men too.

icebrg25 · Answer

It's a matter of opinion when I will never make but it's your life there's no blue book that says you must be around other women nowhere is it written that it must be so if you feel uncomfortable around those then extract yourself and be happy content and free from all the BS that won't be following you show life believe it as you choose you don't have to ask anyone how to live your life you know what you want you know what you like you know what you desire you know you better than anyone so live your life and be happy and content and thank the Lord each morning that he opens your eyes again because you have another 24 to be the very best you can towards your fellow human take care

Nxtawm · Answer

Biggest red flag is a woman who can’t get along with other women. I’m surprised at the amount of guys who don’t recognize that because they’re too blindsided by getting their ego stroked 💀I get there are shitty or fake women out there but it’s not like only the female gender is like that, there are shitty and fake guys too. It’s not a gender thing. Also women are controlling, fake, and play mind games but you’re somehow special despite being a woman so you don’t do any of that? Okay… yeah sure

Also it’s understandable to see and point out the flaws in your gender but just hating on women while saying men are superior, that’s embarrassing. Im not saying this either as like a big feminist or screaming girls should support girls. I think that mentality is kinda stupid sometimes actually since it enables the shitty things some women do. You should hold other women accountable. But no gender is above the other 💀 they’re both bad and good in their own ways.

SquishyBuns2628 · Answer

It's giving pick-me behavior lol 🤔🤣 Dony9y hangout with guys and swer up and down "I'm not like other women" and guve an example how your not like what society portrays what women to be? Smh do better.

There's a difference between a pick me and an actual tomboy that genuinely hangout with guys as well as other women. That distinct difference is not putting other women down (like the title of your post) because men have drama just like women; it's just in a different form.

sunflower00 · Answer

I don’t mean to be that person but I don’t think it’s overly normal to not be around any women and paint them all with the same brush. Honestly sounds a little like internalised misogyny. Yeah some people are awful but it’s not everyone.

I get on great with some women and not so well with others, and I get on great with some men and again not others. People are people and have completely different personalities, your sex doesn’t determine that

provokeesmokee · Answer

Average but not normal nor healthy.

Get therapy. With a man if you prefer.

It's one thing to be generally cautious, but you're doing the same shit incels do. Generalizing and assuming with zero ability to change your mind.

That's not normal. That's an unhealthy coping mechanism clearly motivated by previous trauma.

Get some help. Heal.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It's common enough to be noticed, but I wouldn't say it's "normal".. I do understand what you're saying, but I do think generalizing is never the best option.. There's some great women out there.. You just gotta get through all the phony ones..

loveslongnails · Answer

That's why I like being around them, cuz I know what they're going to do before they do it most of the time! It's more entertaining than hanging out with guys who just want to talk sports or tell lies about all the women they're bedding. LOL As you said "most women", there are some who don't play those games except when they feel really threatened. Hang out with those women when you find them. I like them the best.

DextroShade · Answer

It's so funny how women don't even want to be friends with women but think men should.

MustafaAl · Answer

Are you sure about that, Pretty sure most of men are scheming as well. If you want a true friendship You need to lend a hand but its still not guaranteed and oyu have to be understanding

Unit1 · Answer

It's normal. I know someone, who also preferred to be friends with boys. She told me, that the girls were quite stupid chickens and it felt better to be without them. I am on very good terms with her.

PrincessBunBuns · Answer

Yeah we call those girls pick me’s lol As if there’s no drama with men. If you’re having problems with every single woman you meet, I have some news for you.

SomeRandomFrenchGirl · Answer

I'm exactly like you, I get along much better with men than women who annoy me

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I can understand that! I have 2 ex-sisters that I can't trust any farther than I can blow `em over with a good fart!! Now, I've got at least 2 female ex-cousins I can add to that list!

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Its not weird, but it isn’t exactly normal either. Women tend to label women like you “pick me’s” and men are probably going to be suspicious of your intentions.

Nifrayu · Answer

I think it's just as normal as a woman doesn't want to be around men. I honestly don't know if this can be considered normal or not, but I don't think there is necessarily anything wrong with it.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

It’s not abnormal to prefer your own company but that attitude speaks to some internalized misogyny

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Most of my ex's were the same way. I think it makes sense.

Anemone978 · Answer

No its not really a normal trait.. I always assume something is up with those kind of women..

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't know about "normal," but it definitely happens.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if it's normal, but it's common. I'm the same way. Guys are just more chill and honest.

Olivier-628 · Answer

yes. I've heard a couple women that do that.

Selena1987 · Answer

I really have found female more honest, kind and compassionate. I don’t know where you live as it’s also important I think.

MassiveDik · Answer

Lots of women I know feel the same way, they hate being around other women because they are mostly Two faced bitches.

Anonymous · Answer

Men do exactly the same thing. What world are you living in?

Anonymous · Answer

Well those are pick me girls lol but I prefer my small circle of girl friends. I could care less about making new friends or being friends with guys.

Benedikt_lol · Answer

No it's normal cuz ur not like the other girls.

Vikkrram · Answer

At last some women accepted this

spartan55 · Answer

Any woman who claims this is never real.

WhitneySnow · Answer

A lot of guys do that too

Anonymous · Answer

I can understand

jahaims · Answer

Guys do if too just differently

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

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