Can you get over the fact Dahmer looks completely normal and sane and he’s blonde and blue eyed?

[Ifitbtbtb]

He’s not what people expect a serial killer to look like. A cannibal. A rapist.

he could even be described as handsome.

this is what women of many races lust after.

just shows how stupid lust is.

[Pοrnytail]

I'm just posting a stupid opinion. ﾠ

[RavVid]

Well his hair is actually ginger and therefore he is a ginga so that automatically makes him suspect.

His eyes might be blue but there is something odd about them - sort of like they're pinned. So I think that make him doubly suss.

Is the picture actually of Dahmer or the actor who played him?

[Miristheiss]

I've never given creed to the looks of serial killer. People say Ted Bundy was handsome and charming to talk to.

I'd say most of them don't look scary to where you'd give pause if you passed them on the street. (assuming they were well kept... they look disheveled in some of their mug shots)

[Sour-rose]

Bruh, he looks like one of "those" guys. You know, got those glasses, that hair, and turns out the guy is a rapist and or murderer. Sure, normal and shit but that kind of guy is... o hell no, be careful.

[Meropatrick]

He looks odd to me. And he does act odd. I dont believe that people like him didn't have red flags. I am sure many of his victims saw the red flags at some point and ignored them. We have great tools honed by evolution to detect when something isn't right. Call it a 6th sense or whatever. Jeffery had a lot of previous complaints about him but it was ignored. I dont believe his father didn't know anything about his situation either

[LiamJHayden]

Does not surprise me. Whether one believes the Bible or not, many, many centuries ago it was written that "Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." If the embodiment of evil can look pretty to us, why not a lunatic?

[strateguy632]

that surprise is artificial. disney made pictures of ugly witches, but evil is not physically ugly face.

[Ifitbtbtb]

What? This is about lust. He’s clearly a handsome man, and he’s also calm and well spoken in interviews. He could easily pull women and gay men. He could have someone drooling over him and dying to be with him. Yet look at what a monster he was.

It’s just ironic we women lust after men for how they look but they can actually kill us for pleasure.

[BoopBoopBeep]

He looks like Howdy Doody grew up and got incel-y. I have literally never heard a woman say she considered him attractive. Usually, they're quite vocal about the opposite.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Heniusori Because most gay guys I know also think he's goofy looking? He worked out, sure, but ain't nobody asking ol boy to be in GQ magazine any time soon. He looks like the before picture on some low-rent makeover show.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Heniusori Yeah I remember when he was arrested. He was all over the news. Literally nobody I knew thought he was attractive.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Udifinfnfn Killers look like normal people. I mean, they don't have horns and bat wings and stuff. I guess part of me is like, "what are they supposed to look like if not him? or him? or her? or him? or all the others we have through the years"

Maybe it's just because I've talked to a lot of them that I'm... unfazed (?) or something, but "can we get over the fact" ... to me there's nothing to get over.

I'm just trying to better conceptualize how others feel here, because I see and understand that it is very different than my own, but I can't quite... i don't know... REALLY see it yet.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Udifinfnfn Yeah I just know most of those people are full of shite because you go back and look at old videos/feeds/posts and they're all up in their kool-aid and nobody's got shite to say til stuff goes south and they want their fifteen minutes of fame.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Udifinfnfn Most of them. I can't imagine many times the woman is like "ooh he's fugly let me get some of that". Women always want to date up, but not everyone's level of "up" is the same.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@udifinfnfn Women with attractive men isn't the part I'm questioning. I'm questioning what fact is there to "get over" here? That Dahmer looks like a normal person? So does every murderer and serial killer and rapist I've ever met. Well, 99% at least. How else would he look? That's where there's no fact for me to get over.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Udifinfnfn Right, I'm tracking. You've said that part. THAT part I follow. I guess... do you not find normal men attractive? That would make sense as well. If that isn't' accurate, then back to the "what fact is hard to get over" everybody is behaving as predicted by models replicating large enough populations. He doesn't have horns or wings, yes, nor does any other bad guy.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Udifinfnfn So you like the fact that he's a killer? Means there's nothing physiological about his eyes (shape, color) that's essential, as plenty of other people have the same color eyes. The next question would be is it all killers or just the ones that work out? Mason? Gacy? Are they the same? Is it that you're attracted to them BECAUSE of the taboo attached and he and Bundy just happens to be the most in shape amongst them?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Here's where I"m confused. The original qustion was such:

"Can you get over the fact Dahmer looks completely normal..."

Yes, of course. He looks normal, you presumably look normal, how else would he look? Then you go on for multiple entries fangirling over him and how hot he is, that seems to be different than "completely normal" isn't it? Or do you fawn over everyone walking down the street the same? That seems unlikely. So how do those opposing analyses converge?

[loveslongnails]

Ted Bundy was even better looking, as was H. H. Holmes, a serial killer from the 1890's in the USA. You never can tell, can you?

[Flower7]

This is why it’s not good to judge people by their looks.

[Bethany22]

I know. A whole year later, someone is still posting about the shock on here

[jennifer_bloom]

He does not look normal or sane to me. He looks weird.

[jennifer_bloom]

@Udifinfnfn I try not to ridicule how people look, it might make people with similar features insecure

[Billlewis]

I know, right?

[Ifitbtbtb]

His personality in interviews was calm, well spoken. He sounded like he was totally sane and normal.
You can’t trust a man’s demeanor.

[Slim57]

Yeah I could care less what a killer looks lol ke, they all look disgusting when brought to light

[Slim57]

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[Jessikkaaa]

Then who would you say looks like a serial killer

[Ifitbtbtb]

Someone that isn’t that handsome that you’re lusting after him, and he comes off creepy

[Ifitbtbtb]

Dahner is calm in interviews. He doesn’t seem like he’s taken by murder fantasies. He seems self controlled

[elizamichale1]

Is he all tht u said?

[Red_Arrow]

He was all that and worse. Sentenced to sixteen life sentences (equivalent to 957 years) behind bars. He was beaten to death by another inmate in 1994.

[elizamichale1]

@Red_Arrow woww n 957 years? Who can live tht long

[Red_Arrow]

I think there are two reasons for sentences that long. One being to impress how bad the crimes considered together are, and two being to make sure that if some individual cases were somehow overturned he would still remain in prisonl

[elizamichale1]

@Red_Arrow umm i see... well u know i m not tht aware of stuff

[YAsQuen]

Girls: Sooo your telling me the guy is 6 foot?

[Fuentes]

Killers come in all shapes and sizes