Is he attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

whenever he’s speaking with someone one on one, his eyes will always be on me from the distance staring at me. Not even fully engaging with the person he’s speaking to. He’s done this multiple times. What does this mean?

[colaman94]

Great question, definitely a question I've seen a lot in my life. And I'd say, hard to say. Even I can't master the art of "was she looking at me or was she just looking at me* 😉😉. Lol.
Or likewise, an ugly chick would think I'm into her (I wasn't) I was just spaced out or tired 😴 daydreaming lol 😂😆 to the wall tile behind her

[colaman94]

I wish humans were just direct. Forget the flirtings or the stares lol and "why can't women just be upfront, waiting for some man to ask for them, please spare me lol I remark to myself joyfully amused 😁😁

[colaman94]

Anyways I'm just babbling for fun, not at all negative 😋

[Asimiv]

If you're 100% sure he was staring at you, and not looking through you, then yes, he most probably likes you.

[spartan55]

It means you are staring at him more.

[colaman94]

That's what, partner 🤠, I always dislike about "the art" of flirting 🫦 or the art of "eyes lol" because the amount of times I think "is she staring to be friendly or challenging or indifferent" or is it just 😐 or even 😶 lol. Ah well. Lol I never want to embarrass myself if the woman takes the higher ground of "oh (I'm not into you)" and some can be gentle others can be direct. Ouch 🤕😳

[colaman94]

P. S. or as you said, they're only looking, because I was looking lol 👀 even if I was platonic looking the way I could space out or stare at a sign or wall tile behind anything lol 😆

[spartan55]

Girls get way too wrapped up in the staring stuff

[colaman94]

Say, so do us guys 🤣

[colaman94]

I mean there's been times where, and look I'm a big boy, lol, 😂 there's been times where I'm right in front of a woman of similar age and totally looking around and looking past me, everywhere but at me. Definitely says to me as plainly as rain, "not interested in this man in front of me" type of vibes. And while it hurts 🤕 at times, I also just think to myself "well, they were probably a smoker anyhow" or "they probably have some other baggage" I could go on and on. Other times

[colaman94]

@spartan55 other times, right, I'll be looking at a chick, she looks back at me, this is just whoever, random chick, chick I've crossed paths with, chick walking past in the distance, and some will glance, some will stare, some may either be staring for hot vibes or staring with ugly vibes. Sigh. Go figure 👀😎🥴

[RavVid]

I would say yu are his eye candy.