Why are girls so desperate to be in a relationship?

Question

It's like all they want in life is a boyfriend. Not All girls but a majority of them are so desperate for a boyfriend.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I believe it is because this is usually the age girls start dating. They hear their friends talking about their relationships and they crave that affection. Personally, I have deep crushes but I never make a boyfriend my first priority in my life. I have a music career, and that always is before anything else. I do admit I crave the affection sometimes. I also admit I want to experience this new type of relationship. My friends were talking about their boyfriends and I asked a question. Their response was "You dont understand because you dont have a bf. Get one one day and you wilk know" and that got me frustrated. I can use common sense. Boyfriends are not the world, if anything they are just a weird label. I would rather sing and play guitar all my life. If I had to choose a milkion dollard and my crush to marry me or no money anf my music, I woukd chose the no money but with music. Music is the only thing that means everything on earth to me, and stupid labels could never take that away from me.

MsFZB6 · Accepted Answer

I see it in men to. Going from one relationship to another. A lot of people just don't want to be alone.. ever.. it seems. Quit funny. I'm not that way. I've only had 1 relationship before my current.. long though. And in between I just dated a lot and had a lot of friends with benefits. I also don't fall in love easily. That's why relationships are just an extra for me but not a life's wish. I was a very happy single lol..

UptownGirl · Accepted Answer

Not all girls are like that. I was single for a long time before I found my current boyfriend and I couldn't be happier.

Desperation would have been dating every single guy, left right and center just to say that I was in a relationship. I'm 22, I'll be 23 soon and at this point, I think that the relationships you're in now could be the ones that you could be in for the rest of your life.

TadCurious · Accepted Answer

I don't agree with the way you characterize the female half of the human race. The vast majority of girls are heterosexual. It is perfectly normal and natural that, once they reach a certain age, they would long for and want to have a romantic/sexual connection with a guy. That doesn't make them desperate, certainly not any more so than guys longing for the same thing with girls. It's simply the way of the world, the birds and the bees. It's nature.

ShoShoSho · Accepted Answer

small brains

StarryEyedChick · Answer

Girls need to learn not to settle for just any guy giving her attention. While I clearly miss all the nice stuff that come from being in a relationship and avoiding getting into a new one anytime soon, thinking years haha. But yeah girls now a days need to give themselves the respect they deserve. Stay classy and true to who they are. You need to be happy with yourself first before looking for someone and let's admit it most times we find someone when we're not looking so yep

Holly321 · Answer

Definitely not all girls. Some of my friends are serious "boyfriend havers" and it's like they aren't happy unless they are in a relationship, which is crazy. I have spent the last several years not wanting a relationship at all. I would enjoy the companionship but I was completely turned off from wanting a real relationship. I feel like now I'm at a place in my life where I would like something serious. But I have never ever felt desperate to be in a relationship.

Finditout · Answer

Most girls hate being alone. They sit in bed at night and realize no one is there to comfort them. Sometimes their girlfriends can be too much to handle and you don't want to deal with that. They don't WANT a boyfriend. But sometimes they feel as if they NEED a boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

I wanted one. It's a special type of companionship that you can't get from your friends. Plus it's the potential seed of a family. However it took me a long time to find one because some girls just want anyone so they can have a boyfriend but I looked for a true connection.

jackyct · Answer

who doesn't? guys are the same. that's how humans are. i find it more desperate how many man just want to get laid with as many chicks as possible. there's nothing wrong with wanting an emotional comfort and someone who got your bag

Anonymous · Answer

Insecurity is a big one! I honestly never cared.. In HIGHSCHOOL when all my friends were dating and going to prom I was focusing on my future and getting my grades while they failed. I have a lifetime of dating and finding "the one" and now that I'm in college I dont even really want to date

JuliexDeath · Answer

There's so many kind of relationships.

And I don't care about having a boyfriend.

Hugs, kisses, cuddling, gah, so annoying.

All i want is to , become smarter with every day, have money for taking care of my parents and buying my videogames

YouMeAtSix666 · Answer

That's sadly true . Girls just need attention and affection ,they want to feel loved and know they have someone who can protect them and be there on bad times . I feel it's not just a "boyfriend" job. Family can also give you all that, friends. But I guess, everyone need that ONE person.

CassCassCass · Answer

I think it's so that we can show 'em off. You'll have every eye on you, you'll be the talk of the town and you'll have every girl wishing they were you if you have the hottest guy in town wrapped around your finger. Also, girls want that cute relationship where you take cute pictures together and you cuddle and you tell eachother everything. Basically, girls want a bestfriend that they don't have to be jealous of or compete with, just one they can kiss :) *just my opinion, don't hate*

dominiquois · Answer

Some are desperate for a boyfriend. Some aren't.  On that note why are men so desperate to get laid?

foolycooly1001 · Answer

I want a woman more than anything.  I think it's pretty natural.  Why don't you?

gracieee · Answer

i just want someone to be close and intimate with. just like guys do, we get lonely! however, I'll never ever settle for just anyone. THAT'S desperation

Anonymous · Answer

Listen, we are not desperate. We just need a lot of fanfictions. So our standards are high. We want someone who will hold us when we're sad, wipe away our tears, make us laugh, have fun, go on adventures with, cuddle with, sent cute goodnight messages, etc. I think all of us girls wants that. So, yea.

Mgoods · Answer

I've seen some guys like that too. No one ever taught them to be a whole...

rockhaha · Answer

Those are the ones that think they won't get married and will die alone

Col308 · Answer

Because that's how God created us, Its His divine plan, to allow women to want to have a husband, so they can have their family. There's nothing wrong with that, That is our purpose as human beings to be together, God's creation.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause I don't want to be alone. I want someone. but that doesn't mean I'm going to settle for anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they just want attention. They compete with other girls for who can get the guy and the better guy.

adorkableayla · Answer

Some just doesn't really have a goal set for them, and they want someone in their life who is there to tell them that they should make a goal, and be supportive of them. Some girls need a guy in that way, and some just because they want to.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are shy to be single.They don't want people to think that they were rejected by the guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not desperate for it. I just think I'd be happier if I had a loving man in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

they want to have someone to be close with and w/e. too bad a lot of guys take advantage of that...

moviedude714 · Answer

and I hate how being desperate is seen, viewed as a "Femine trait"

last_fallen · Answer

Having a boyfriend makes them feel special, especially it's nice to have someone to be with and talk to openly. Guys also compliment their girls and makes them feel good.

BrokenLover2403 · Answer

I'm not sure for other girls but for me it's cause I'm ignored at home and want to feel loved so maybe that's why

Anonymous · Answer

They love the attention and there looking for a cute relationship like kiss her in school say you love her walk her to her class that's why we're looking for the right guy or she's trying to make someone else jellis??

saren99 · Answer

At a young age girls wanted to be pricesaea and to have the prince charming that they loved. Ever since then that has been the goal for most girls.

iAsk_Questions · Answer

Sometimes they just want to feel loved OR JUST TO RUB IT IN SOME OBNOXIOUS CHICKS FACE

Anonymous · Answer

Because girls since they are inferior to men, tie their self value to having a man. Get it?

ThatGirlTrin · Answer

Because people in relationships look happy. That's what people want, to be happy

Legionarius · Answer

I know plenty of guys in that boat too.

Anonymous · Answer

Well most girls are dependent on another person. Either that or they think that they are the odd one out when all of her friends are dating someone

Anonymous · Answer

Because they don't any better, and Disney movies teach kids young, life is alllll about boys and boys and more boys! Oh yeah did I mention boys?

Anonymous · Answer

I guess it's because they want to be able to have someone that will be there for them no matter what. Plus the physical aspect....

Anonymous · Answer

Girls want relationships because they either could be jealous of others or they are ready to settle down...

Klaatu51 · Answer

unfortunately boys are so desparate as well LOL

Anonymous · Answer

Well some of us just want to be loved and taken care of which is why we want a relationship

AnimeDreama · Answer

They want to feel loved :/

Anonymous · Answer

Because we are really insecure and when we date, boys make us feel good about ourselves

kangy · Answer

they are blind by love

Nicefuture · Answer

"Not me" And Many many guys are Like that too!

bosanac · Answer

I just want someone to call my own.

blackleo25 · Answer

Because we all want to be loved

Anonymous · Answer

Because we are lonely..:/

decentusername · Answer

blame society

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Lol I'm not

Anonymous · Answer

They want the emotional comfort.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls need love in their life

Anonymous · Answer

Not in general

CrazyInWonderland · Answer

Hhh.

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