Which one is the winner the woman your dying to Bank or the one you would marry?

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READ: I ask this question because if there’s two women, one is the woman he would like to marry and the other he’s dying to fuck. Why isn’t the woman he want to marry the woman he’s dying to fuck? And Why isn’t the woman he’s dying to fuck the woman he wants to marry? I found out the woman he wants to Marry is a virgin and single and the woman he’s dying to fuck is still married but going through a divorce. So guys can you EXPLAIN why there’s two desires but with two different women? Which one is stronger and Why?

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Well the woman he wants to fuck most is the woman who sexually excites him most, gives him the hardest & most frequent erections and the best ejaculations with her highly honed sexual skills. His interest might be quite be quite short term and he might see himself losing interest in her but in the mean time sees himself as having the best time he has ever had sexually. He might well think she is extracting money from him but considers it well spent.

The woman he wants marry is one that sees he can live with and have a non conflicting collaborative life with. As she is a virgin she is more able to bond with him and is far less likely to cheat. The first woman is, in his judgement, likely to cheat but he doesn't care about that in the short term. He is not going to worry about that any more than he would worry about a prostitute's fidelity.

The virgin is younger and her body will be better for longer. Outgoings on her beauty will be less and she will get pregnant far more easily. The first woman might require expensive fertility treatments because she is older.

Essentially the guy has a primary desire for excellent sex and a primary desire for an excellent family life. He has quite logically chosen a different woman best placed to meet these two different needs.

If you think he is hypocritical and immoral well yes he is.

The desire for the first woman is stronger in the short term but second woman is the one he will be committed to in the long term.

JacobJordan · Accepted Answer

simple. analogy time don't get mad. ladies you are like the best cheeseburger when it comes to sex. so we would absolutely be thrilled to have said cheeseburger but we may not LOVE said cheeseburger. finding the right combination of delicious cheeseburger we love AND want to be with intimately is what results in us marrying. For us to love the burger we have to see certain qualities. nice, kind, caring, respectful, encouraging, supportive etc. while also being beautiful, feminine, etc

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get the question and surprised more haven't answered it… honestly. A lot of men and women want to screw the one they wouldn’t marry

Anonymous · Answer

It's always comical to me how women talk about this as if they are any different. Women sleep around with bad boys without ever considering actually marrying one. Those guys get your panties wet but would not make good husbands for plenty of obvious reasons. When it comes to finding a husband you're looking for very different things. The scenario you dexcribe in not different ezcept the genders are reversed.

NathanDavis · Answer

this question is about stupid men that are inadequate, and hate their lives insecure AF... lol

Drewtate · Answer

He wants sex. I promise you the virgin he wants to martyrs he wants to fuck too

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nah bro that shit doesn't happen to me, bro is on his own with this one lol

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds a bit like me in love with a married woman Jill and she has 2 kids but I won't do anything to jeopardize her marriage or her family and homelike. Yes I love her but I'm not gonna be selfish and put my desires ahead of her life and happiness

Anonymous · Answer

There are women men fuck, and women men marry. They are not the same.

BLP11520 · Answer

this question is not typical for many guys

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