What goes through a guys mind when he sees/thinks about their crush? Do they think of all the small things girls think about like places to take them or movies or watch with them. Does their heartbeat faster when they see them? Do they think of them all the time?
It works like some sort of stupid override switch in his head.
For some guys, they could be doing something completely unrelated but all of sudden thoughts of her comes to his head.
They could see another attractive woman but when they start thinking of that woman. Boom it just overrides and goes back thoughts of his crush.
If he really likes her and wants a life with her. Trust me he’s thought of things. Not names for the kids, but the life you guys would’ve lived, where you would’ve gone together, conversations, her falling for another guy, how great of a mother she would be (if he wanted kids too).
(Sorry guys) they also fantasize about their crush.
Don’t deny it girls do it too.
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Since the summer I've been seeing a beautiful young lady who's been my friend for over 10 years.
What I think about is the first time she reached up and kissed me. The times she laid her head on my chest, and of course the first time this became a sexual relationship. And yes my heart does beat faster every time I am near her... She works way too much but she runs her own company, so I understand. So our time together is limited, so what keeps me going is these memories I mentioned about.
And yes, I do think of what we can do and where I can take her when I see her again.
I think they weigh the pros and cons of actually pursuing her. Guys have feelings, too. He will probably hesitate to pursue a girl he likes due to past hurt.
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Being a bit of a shy guy I'll just watch her from afar. Imagine cuddling or going on a nice date or even just sitting on the same damn couch would be good.
Ultimately I won't let myself get that close to someone. I'll hide from them or go out of my way to become scarce because I can't handle the anxiety. Coincidentally I don't get the chance to date much.Yeah to all those things.. Unfortunately I think about our lives together and then meeting the family as well.. My heart definitely skips a beat when I see them.. Especially if we don't talk that much.. But unfortunately I has never worked out..
Depends on the guy and the chemistry. Is there some playful flirting going on? Is she an obscure yet unattainable crush he probably won’t have many opportunities to intersect with. Context sure matters.
I'm always thinking about how recently she's had sex, and who the lucky guy was who enjoyed the privilege of being intimate with her.
I just think about her endlessly and can't get her out of my head.
I have only one crush that put all that into my head.
All the above.
Losing sleep.
Thinking about the big and little.talking
cuddling
fucking
... her
In that order. Thats what we think
Maintaining control.
I think about getting the chance to meet you.
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