I don't know if he likes me or not?

[Anonymous]

I went to a party and saw one a guy I used to have a crush on, every time he's with me he'd be touchy feely with me, and it'd make me feel weirdly safe

Right before he left we hugged each other and I kind of just left my head rest on his chest and we were like that for ages and I completely forgot there were other people there oops abab, All the feelings came back and I felt so safe with him it's such a nice weird feeling.

Not sure if he likes me or it was just a nice feeling to see him again

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that does sound kinda confusing. On one hand, he was acting all touchy feely with you, hugging for a long time, letting you rest your head on his chest. That's pretty intimate stuff. Most guys aren't gonna do that unless they like a girl at least a little.

But at the same time, he might have just been caught up in the nice feeling of seeing you again after awhile like you said. Sometimes old feelings can come back even if not really serious anymore. And you did used to have a crush on him so maybe he was just being friendly since he knows you liked him before.

If I were you, I'd wait and see how he acts next time you hang out, just you two without the party vibes. Does he still want that close touching? Does he try making plans with just you? That would be a sign he's into you. Or does he act more normal friend level? Then maybe it was just the party feelings. See how it goes next time and you'll have a better idea if he could like you as more than a friend now too. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I think he definitely likes you or the hug wouldn't have lasted so long..

[bededazzle]

no way to know. will you see him again?