What’s the first thing men notice about a woman they’re attracted to?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

Face/Body. No set order, it depends on how you meet them. If you see them from a distance you notice their figure, if you are introduced or first see them close up, facing you then the face is what you see first. Those are the 2 things a guy will be scoping for, a nice face and an attractive body/figure.

[Asker]

Who would you describe as being your type?

[Miristheiss]

Persoanlity/values?

Or physically?

Type is a bit of a misnomer, because tons of types of women could have been my type (my wife is 5'3", brown hair, brown eyes, average build), I was attracted to blondes, brunettes, red heads, tall girls, shorts girls, A cup, D cups, thin, average, athletic, curvy.

She only needed to have a nice face and be fit. If I had to pick a look that always stood out to me it would be a red head/auburn, a little curvy with pale, porcelain skin. I always had a sweet spot for that look.

Personality: conservative with family values, sweet, feminine, modest, marriage was her goal, not career, not having sex out of marriage until she is ready to settle at 27 because a job was her life goal. Same faith as me.

[Asker]

Good values 😊👍

[SpaceGalaxy]

Her Ass, Legs, Tits, Face (but most would say "her eyes, smile, and personality" since they have a better chance of getting involved with her if they say these things)

[SpaceGalaxy]

Thank you for the MHO

[lightbulb27]

feminine energy and confidence!

[CalmUntilAbused]

The first thing anyone notices about anyone else is looks. The face (including skin condition), the hair, the figure... And of course, the outfit. Now, if what we mean by "attraction" is the primal instinct, then what I just listed, along with the curviness, will be the answer to Your question. However, if we consider "attraction" to be more than this primal instinct, then I guess the figure and the outfit will be the first things to be noticed, along with the face and the skin condition, unless the latter are clearly disfigured by a terrible accident and not by genetics or lack of care, in which case they can be disregarded. While the figure, the skin condition and the outfit can tell a lot about what a person is like, they do not paint the whole picture. A perfectly fine woman going through a depressive episode (which is the proper reaction of human mind to the current state of the reality) might get a little overweight and might care a little less about her skin condition. And while a revealing outfit might be a red flag regarding the woman's personality and values, sometimes a woman might simply not be aware of what such an outfit tells about her and might be just following the current trends in fashion. Thus, the woman's values might make it to the list of the first things for a man to notice about a woman he's attracted to, as well.

[NathanDavis]

- with my first girlfriend... it was her style and looks, as she walked through the classroom's doors first day of classes

- with my second girlfriend... it was the sound of her giggle/chuckle and a bit of her accent, I heard her before I ever saw her

- with the third one... it was definitely her accent, heard it very clearly then I had to go investigate who the hell was that... lol

- with the fourth... it was also her style and looks at this party, but more than anything her big eyes and she approached me out of nowhere, heard the accent as she spoke and I was done for

yeah, I guess I have a thing for accents... lol

[SimplyPut]

I mean if it's real attraction if it's that person your person it's like you notice everything at once and it's sensory overload. If she's wearing open toe shoes you notice the color of her nail polish if she's wearing any at the same time you're noticing how her hair is being tucked behind your ear because she had just seen you and smiled at the same time. The color of her eyes are apparent and the sound of her voice when you say hello. The way she laughs for sense of humor all just melts into one big moment on that first encounter

[HawkPerception]

Fashion is the first thing. Then face, body or hair in no order. Whatever we see first. Sometimes eyes if they have beautiful colored eyes like blue, green or hazel it kinda makes it hard to miss when you walk by them.

It really depends on the angle. If we're walking by each other on a hike or a mall or something then it's usually the face or body depending on which of those traits of hers is more attractive and attention grabbing. If I'm walking behind, it's usually the ass and her hair. I can usually tell how attractive a girl is based on her ass and hair.

My type of girl is @jamylein on Instagram. I love the boho aesthetic she has.

[wolfcat87]

Men tend to describe overall appearance first. Eyes, sweet/cute face, pretty lips, etc. Then, they mention body parts like chest, butt, hips, etc. All in that order. Personality traits come next. Voice comes after that. It depends on the guy, but this has been an overall trend with the vast majority.

[LeeVan]

The Physical appearance is obviously first, but immediately after looks we notice the demeanor.

I took a drug test once for work and the girl at the reception counter was drop dead gorgeous, but it was her smile and how warm she was that made me melt inside.

Meeting an attractive woman who treats you kindly and is pleasant to talk to is truly a one two punch to the heart.

[PinkFlamingoes]

Her looks unfortunately.. Most men are extremely shallow. Even if a women is charismatic, talented, funny, witty, accomplished, has a PhD from Harvard, a Nobel prize and a pilot license, as well as a great sense of style, they don't care, if she doesn't match up to their own beauty standards.

[Keyboardkat]

For me, it can be her laugh! If a girl has a unique or unusual laugh, which she can't control or hold back, I almost don't even care what she looks like - to me she's beautiful and irresistible! This can be one of a girl's most endearing and sexiest traits. I know I'm not the only guy who feels this way!

[Finchie40]

I can't speak for all guys' but a majority of guys' do check out a girl for her beauty first. Me personally looks at her eyes and face first then her body , then it comes down to her personality, if she does t have a nice personality her looks won't mean shit to me

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I guess it depends on how you encounter the lady. I first met my wife in a restaurant, and I noticed her happy, smiling face. If she had simply walked by and not made contact, I may have noticed her side profile or her bottom.

[MLGbreezy]

Depends on the man and the situation and the woman honestly sometimes I don’t see a girl but she’ll walk by me and smell how amazing she is then I’ll turn around and see a beautiful woman. Or maybe it’s her hair if we’re face to face or her smile or her outfit it all depends on the girl. Or somethings it’s that booty if she’s physically gifted. Ima sucker for a nice booty and a cute smile so either one of those is usually the first thing I notice depending.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Depends on which part looks glorified at the moment.

If she's coming from front if she has big boobs obviously it boobs.

If from backside the swing of her ass.


If all is good then from top to bottom every inch is scanned in the mind and in our thoughts ravishing her body

[robhazelnut]

Only speaking for my own exerience: face (including minimal makeup, a warm expression and shining eyes), long hair, an hourglass frame, large legs and a large rear-end, in no particular order. That's what I'm visually attracted to.

[ohmyguy]

That there beauty goes hand in hand with their attitude..

Meaning their good natured down to earth demeanor.. makes her a genuine good soul.. she doesn't take here beauty. too too seriously.. or any less than ideal flaws some one my point out.. irrelevant n unnoticable

[smne35]

Speaking for myself her eyes followed by taking in rest of her face, then her body and all of her, and only takes a second to fully see her from head on down and decide what or how to approach if interested

[Lliam]

The first things are looks, voice, mannerisms, grooming and attire.
Other things like personality and values are extremely important, but I don't find out about those until we have a chance to get to know each other.

[elizamichale1]

As my brothers say tht tits r the first thing any guy notices first on a girl

[Green96]

I think her booty 😂
Is more visible

[elizamichale1]

@Green96 whose

[Green96]

Girls in general

[elizamichale1]

@Green96 well more guys compliment on tits but now its like a trend from a while tht people r getting into butts too

[Anonymous]

To each their own. I immediately look at their feet. Not because I want to grab and start groping them. If I find flaws in their feet or I see them wearing shoes I do not loke, I use that as my immediate excluse to eliminate them from my memory so that I do not think about them again.

My guy friends in college used to ask me "bro.. why do you always look at their butt?"... I would have a hard time explaining to them that their butt was the last thing on my mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Please pardon my fat finger typos.

[Bearrrrr]

Literally everything but mostly your face then your body and personality.