What does he mean he really appreciate me for giving him the time of the day.. friendzone, polite, or low key flirty?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what it means but ugh it made me blush 🙄

[etsylo]

im not sure but that's kind of sad. it makes me feel as if others have never given him the time of day, which i know how that feels. i thank my boyfriend STILL for simply "listening to me" without yelling at me or ignoring me. i was so used to this behavior that when he was actively listening, it made me feel weird but happy.

the guy seems to be happy that you gave him time and attention. im not sure if it means anything else but it sounds like a really good sign!!

[Asker]

Aw that’s very cute. Well we just reconnected on texting.. I told him maybe we could be friends.. and then bam.. he said that… and now I’m confuse with resurfacing old feelings… he didn’t agreed to be friends except that lol

[etsylo]

okay then I don't know anymore 😭 yeah, he didn't agree so im not sure. id be so confused id ask him if that was a yes or no but that's so embarrassing

[Asker]

Me too I’m like 🤯…

[etsylo]

i hope he keeps talking to you if you want to be friends with him cuz I don't know he's being very vague now 😥

[Asker]

FRFR, I don’t even know what to say rn….. lmao sighs ima wait…

[etsylo]

yeah that's the best you can do for now 😔 good luck..

[Asker]

It’s so confusing…. But I don't know I guess I gotta let him go (again) cuz he’s now not really responding

[etsylo]

again? he hasn't responded much or at all? :(

[Asker]

He responded super late…. Though more engaging. But then I took super long to reply cuz I’ve been very busy. And now he taking a long time again 😂😭 I don't know if he’s playin games of tug o war lmao ugh

[etsylo]

😭 omg oh nooo, that would confuse me so much. id prefer a blunt response over playing cat and mouse any day honestly

[Asker]

Hahahahw FRFR 😭😭😭 I think ima just message him cuz I care about his well being….. lucky mf I like him 😭 is that too much?

[etsylo]

😭 aww no, i don't think it's too much! you care about him and that's so sweet 🥺

[Asker]

Thanks so much girly 😭😭😭 why guys be playin so much games…… sighhhhhh~ I’m like hmm maybe he’s just busy with someone else… but in a way I can’t blame him cuz there’s so many good lookin people out there lmao but I wish he was more focus on me 😭

[etsylo]

aww noo don't be like that :( i understand where you're coming from tho honestly, it's just so like UGH when that happens. he seems kinda dry, actually I don't know because I tend to text pretty fast if I can or if im busy i tell my boyfriend im busy so he knows 💔 i don't like mind games so I don't know why so many guys play that

[Asker]

I think there’s someone else…. Or he’s scared/not feeling it and decided to back away 😞 I don’t feel like I’ve done anything wrong, so I know it’s on him

[etsylo]

yeah : (( if there was someone else though, he should say something and not lead you on either 💔

[Billlewis]

Did he really ask you what time it was? If he thanked you for that, he's probably just kissing ass;)

[Asker]

No… he was expressing thanking me for making time to talk to him I guess.. I’m confuse though lol

[Billlewis]

How long have you worked together, and does either of you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I say low key flirting.

[Asker]

I guess it worked cuz it made me got butterflies 🤔… but I’m quite disappointed cuz he kept things short after and he’s no longer msging me… sighs

[Opinion Owner]

Seems like he lost interest?

[Asker]

Sighs maybe so 😞… I just don’t know if it’s because he’s scare, it has been so long and we just reconnected, or it’s our distance… or maybe my responses wasn’t a vibe…

[ThrillSeeker01]

Kinda flirty.