My online boyfriend coerced me to showing my cleavage and grabbing my breast on webcam then he orgasmed and now he’s distant barely texts me. Why?

[Anonymous]

I asked If he ok. He says he’s bust with a medschool project for a few days

i feel so haywire

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This question is embarrassing but this really happened I just want help

[Avicenna]

Because he’s a jerk and got what he wanted. Kick this clown to the curb.

[Asker]

He’s still talking to me. He said tj be patient. And that Monday his project will be done.

[boggboss]

He got what what he wanted no matter how manybtimes u ask this it won't change the fact he is playing u

[Asker]

Why would this man play me? I didn’t do anything wrong to him. I. Fact he said multiple times he thinks I’m innocent person rare and different and non materialistic.

[boggboss]

He got u to send u sex stuff then went cold but u think what he has told u is complety truthful some trolling

[Asker]

Wait what? I didn’t ask him to say that stuff he said it out of nowhere. I’d assume it came from his brain. Why would anyone randomly say that stuff?

[Asker]

He said to be patient with him cause he’s very busy this weekend with a medschool project

[boggboss]

I never said u said to do it he wanted u to do it so he got u to do it then he disappeared because thats all he wanted when he is horny again he will come back you are allowing yourself to be played that u think it matters what u done to him is silly

[boggboss]

He ain't busy he just don't care to hear from u till he is horny again

[Asker]

He was chasing me for like a week or something before I gave in so he was horny the whole week. He’s horny all the time… he said he wants sex all the time so I doubt he’s not horny now

[Asker]

If he isn’t busy why would he say he is so busy? He could just tell me to go away or that he wants alone time I don't know. Before I gave in he was very much clingy and would complain and get mad that I wasn’t texting or calling him enough!!

[boggboss]

No he ain't horny now because he got what he wanted also u have no clue if he is talking to other women or just you at the end of the day a normal guy that cares about u wouldn't get u to do sex acts then go cold if u really think that's normal then u are not ready for a relationship

[Asker]

The thing is he’s very busy with med school project for this weekend. He said that even before I gave in. So I don’t think that was a lie. That’s why I’m being adamant here that I think he’s really busy. I just feel so haywire

[boggboss]

He is saying he is busy because its a safe way for your to stop bothering him and so he can get more later

[Asker]

He told me from the jump that he only talks to one girl at a time and wants me to do the same. I said ok. So I doubt he’s taking to other women.

[Asker]

No he been told me he was going to be very busy from before I gave in. He already told me he would be busy prior to this.

[boggboss]

Lol because he has shown he is trustful if u honestly believed what he said u wpuldnt be asking questions on gag u are here because u know somthing is off

[boggboss]

Again if u believed everything he said why are u on gag asking why

[Asker]

Because I feel lonely alone haywire because he’s not here with me mentally since he’s not communicating. But he texts at least once a day but barely communicates whereas before he was so clingy would chase me if I don’t respond to him soon enough. He would ask “did you ghost me”

[Asker]

If I say “what’s wrong’ like I did yesterday he just says he’s busy. So I don’t even know what to say to him. He says to be patient.

[boggboss]

If u are not able to put together, why he is distant then thats your choice to live whatever fiction u decide to make if u honestly believe he is too busy then thats it

[Asker]

You never been busy I guess.

[boggboss]

Not so busy I don't have 5 mins for my partner if u honestly believe he was busy u wouldn't be asking this

[Asker]

I get that maybe something changed after he orgasmed to me but I don’t know what. Right after he texted me saying I’m really cute. Then later that night is when I noticed a change and he was not clingy at all anymore. I don’t know what to do. And yeah I’m the future I’m going to try to not give in if he tries it again because clearly it leads to nothing good for me. But the thing is he coerced me so I have to be stronger than usual.

[Asker]

The thing is he told me to be patient yesterday. But he will usually text good morning and night. So the fact be said be patient maybe it means he isn’t trying to leave me he still loves me

[boggboss]

Lol u think he loves u 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

You’re not better than any woman. The reason you act so arrogant is because you see women stressing over other men.

[boggboss]

No not at all I'm acting this way because u are delusional I'm not concerned with how a guy treats u as I have my own fiancé

[Asker]

He said be patient. I don’t think you’re giving him benefit of doubt. Your assessment is too negative.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Is he still busy?

[Anonymous]

Well, haven't you been used.

[Iron_Man]

He’s a user

[Asker]

Wow why? He’s busy now

[Iron_Man]

Come on

[Asker]

He said he’s busy til Monday

[Iron_Man]

Will see that sounds awful strange after that situation all of a sudden he’s busy. He doesn’t have time to text or a five minute phone call In a 24 hour day

[Asker]

He’s in med school it’s pretty hard he barely gets sleep normally. He told me to be patient.

[Asker]

Should I be patient and what should I say to him? And what do I say if he tries for sex again

[Iron_Man]

You can try if it makes you feel better, but don’t put out because some people take advantage of people like that then they leave

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what I said, I plan to hold back next time he asks for that. It just makes me in a bad situation and I don’t want this feeling again.

[Asker]

The thing is he told me to be patient yesterday. But he will usually text good morning and night. So the fact be said be patient maybe it means he isn’t trying to leave me he still loves me

[Iron_Man]

How many days has it been now?

[Asker]

Like 2-3

[Asker]

And he said his project is due Monday

[Iron_Man]

Then, we’ll see if he calls you Monday night or Tuesday

[Asker]

Okay thanks I can look forward to that then it makes it easier

[Iron_Man]

Yes …

[Asker]

What should I do if/when he comes back and is talking to me again? Should I act cool or tell him I missed him?

[Iron_Man]

Say that you missed him

[Asker]

Okay. :D I hope he will love me again after that.

[Iron_Man]

Sure 👍